My Truth, Your Truth, and The Truth

“Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.”

— Aldous Huxley (1894-1963)
English author and philosopher

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National Road Trip Day

The Friday before Memorial Day is National Road Trip Day. Thus, today we officially kick off the summer road trip season on this day. Millions of Americans hit the road for the long weekend to visit friends and family while paying tribute to our American military heroes.

With a grateful nod to all those who gave their lives in service to this country, I say a never-ending “thank you” for sacrificing time, health, wealth, and lives to help all of us enjoy the opportunities that freedom provides.

One of them is travel and time with friends. So, I happily share photos from our little road trip to Lake Lure, North Carolina with great friends Janice Gilbert and Jim Lurvey.

 

 

We enjoyed a splendid day on the water amidst the stunning scenery in one of the Blue Ridge Mountains’ gorgeous gorges. No wonder that “Dirty Dancing” filmmakers among many others have selected this lake and area to serve as backdrops.

And seeing Chimney Rock is always sweet. I also enjoy how much the area reminds me of home in New Hampshire.

 

Historic 1927 Lake Lure Inn

Enjoy wherever your next road trip takes you. Travel safely. Appreciate freedom.

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Proverbial Experience

Photo by Pascal Habermann

 

“A proverb is a short sentence based on long experience.”

– Miguel de Cervantes (1547-1616)
Spanish writer

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National Yucatan Shrimp Day

Yucatan Shrimp combines authentic Mexican cuisine with some Caribbean flair. But surprise! Yucatan Shrimp comes from Florida, though inspired by Mexico. The dish was created by Doc Ford’s Bar & Grille of southwest Florida fame. (Check them out in Fort Myers Beach, Sanibel Island, St. Pete Pier, and now also in the Jungle Terrace in St. Pete.) At Doc’s, these shrimp are served as a peel-and-eat specialty. I find that eating shrimp is easier and far less messy to remove the shells first. I also Super Simplify by skipping the traditional boiling step.

So, with a nod to the official National Yucatan Shrimp Day, here’s my take on Doc’s Yucatan Shrimp.

(Oh, and they also make this with oysters, baking them with a creamy Manchego cheese topping. Sooooo, go ahead and make that, too!)

Super Simple Yucatan Shrimp
4 T butter
1 minced garlic clove
1 tsp seeded and finely diced or chopped jalapeño pepper
Juice of 2 large or 4-6 small limes
1 T sambal oelek (garlic chili sauce)
Kosher salt & ground pepper
1½ -2 lbs shelled & deveined jumbo shrimp
2 T chopped fresh cilantro

Melt butter over low heat in large skillet; stir in garlic & jalapeño peppers for 2 minutes before stirring in lime juice, garlic chili sauce, salt & pepper. Then increase heat to medium and add shrimp, cooking just 2-3 minutes, till they are just barely firm. Sprinkle with cilantro and toss again. Makes 4 servings.

KISS Tips: The shrimp can also be roasted in a BBQ grill or 400° oven. As an appetizer, serve with crispy baguettes and a little salsa on the side. Plus a rum drink or a favorite Mexican beer, of course! For an entrée, try serving over slices of grilled or roasted sweet onion. Oh, yeah!

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National Lucky Penny Day

 

Do you believe a penny is lucky? People in many cultures do.  Because today is National Lucky Penny Day, you just may want to keep glancing at the ground. You just never know when you’ll find a lucky penny.

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International Being You Day

Photo by Craig Hellier

 

Of course, we’ve all likely heard various expressions that encourage us to be ourselves. Well, yeah… Everyone else is already taken.

But while we are being ourselves, why not try being our best selves? We all have happier days when we exude positive, encouraging expressions. Wherever you may be in this world, enjoy being you today.

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Deserve Happiness

Photo by Alexander Rotker

“If we cannot live so as to be happy, let us at least live so as to deserve it.”

— Henry David Thoreau (1817 – 1862) American naturalist, philosopher, and writer

As written in his Journal on January 21, 1838

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National Pick Strawberries Day

Photo by Oliver Hale

 

In many areas, strawberries are not quite ripe yet. In others, the luscious berries have already been getting picked for several weeks. Regardless, every year on May 20th we recognize National Pick Strawberries Day.

My sister and I recently relived a childhood memory. We walked through our meadows and kept looking for AND FINDING adorable wild strawberries. Ripe but not quite as sweet as my childhood memory.

Photo by Joseph Gonzalez

Strawberries are merely mahhhhhvelous plucked fresh. But they are also delightful in cooking, whether you are making jam, jazzing up a salad, or whipping up some muffins, tarts, or a pie. For true decadence, simply dip a strawberry in melted chocolate. Or go all in and indulge in fresh strawberry shortcake with whipped cream, ice cream, or both! Yum!

If you can, pick some fresh strawberries today. Otherwise, buy a box at your favorite grocery store and indulge!!!

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Respond Positively

Photo by Simran Sood

 

“Consider how much more often you suffer from your anger and grief than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved.”

— Marcus Antonius aka Mark Antony (83 – 30 BC)

Roman politician and general

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Do Our Best

 

 

“Ability will never catch up with the demand for it.”

— Malcolm S. Forbes (1919-1990)
American entrepreneur and publisher

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National Walnut Day

National Walnut Day originated in 1949, thanks to the Walnut Marketing Board. It then received a presidential proclamation by President Dwight Eisenhower in 1958. So, go ahead… celebrate!

High in antioxidants and heart-healthy fats, walnuts are not just for desserts. Try coarsely chopping walnuts and adding to rice or veggie dishes. Or replace pine nuts with walnuts when you make pesto. Top cereal or muffins with walnuts, either whole or coarsely chopped. Walnuts are great in banana bread, slaw, granola bars, and stuffings. And over salads, walnuts are nutty mahhhhvelous, whether raw, toasted, or caramelized.

Caramelized Walnuts are Super Simple. Nibble on them as a snacking treat or to use as a decorative addition for cakes and cookies or roasted meats.
1 c walnut halves (or large pieces)
¼ c granulated sugar (or monk fruit or coconut sugar)
1 T butter
Toss all the ingredients into a skillet over medium heat. As the sugar begins to melt, stir the nuts continuously for 5 minutes to coat them while toasting. Then spoon onto a parchment-lined baking sheet, quickly separating the nuts (with a couple of spoons) to help them cool and “set,” which only takes 5 minutes. Enjoy these gems in popcorn, over salads, or just for snacking! (And, yes! This works with other favorite nuts, too!)

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Mother’s Day

Too many years had passed since my sister and I were both with Mom for Mother’s Day. We enjoyed that blessing this year. Sir Ronald and I have spent Mother’s Day with Mom many times, but we kids got somewhat scattered as adults and were not together as often as we would have liked. After Deborah’s visit to NC, we flew to Florida to spend Mother’s Day together with Mom.

 

At Church, members placed photos of their Moms on a big table. Mom chose a 4-generation photo taken at our wedding, the last family celebration her Mom got to attend, and the photo included Mom’s Mom, Mom, Deborah, Deborah’s daughter Jennifer, and Yours Truly.

 

 

 

 

 

We were all given flowers at church and again at lunch. We enjoyed Hawaiian sweet bread and a melt-in-your-mouth crab-stuffed grouper. Yes, it’s difficult for me to omit the food references.

 

Deborah is staying with Mom now for a few weeks, where she will be teaching some Tai Chi and meditation classes. Mom’s friends are so excited for this.

 

 

 

We take no precious moments together for granted. Mom has always taught us to work hard, stay involved and busy, love each other, and stop to smell the flowers of all sorts…

 

 

gardenias on this particular day. I have been mightily blessed, and I never forget that.

 

 

 

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The Value of Nurturing

(Image by John Hain)

“We’ve got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can’t just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it’s going to get on by itself. You’ve got to keep watering it. You’ve got to really look after it and nurture it.”

— John Lennon (1940 – 1980)
British singer and songwriter

 

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Happy Mother’s Day!

Among my many blessings is an extraordinary woman… my mother. Glenna Burnham is active and involved in life every single day. She nurtures us still and loves us all unconditionally. She sets the pace with an unwaveringly positive attitude. She is the most amazingly wonderful role model I have ever known or could ever imagine.

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom! And to all the other women who do their best to be the best they can be on someone else’s behalf. You make this world a better place.

 

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Let Loyalty Live!

Photo by Daniel Lincoln

 

“Nothing is more noble, nothing more venerable, than loyalty.”

—Cicero (106 – 43 BC)
Roman statesman and philosopher

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Find Happy Today & Everyday

Image by Mariya Muschard

 

“Happiness depends upon ourselves.”

— Aristotle (384 – 322 BC)
Greek philosopher

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Birthday Celebrated

Cathy with Ron, Jim, Janice, and Deborah

“I count my age by friendships, not years, and I count my life by smiles, not tears.”

My sister, Deborah, is visiting from Hawaii and celebrated my birthday with Ron and me and our dear friends Jim Lurvey and Janice Gilbert. We enjoyed a lovely dinner dockside at the Lake House on Lake Lure.

 

 

 

 

 

We also introduced Deborah to the historic Biltmore Estate in Asheville. The largest single-family residence in the USA is also the most visited house in America, attracting nearly 1.5 million visitors a year, even more than the White House.

 

 

 

Deborah with Ron

 

We love the amazing architecture, gardens, and history. The grounds are nothing less than phenomenal, and touring them would take another day or two!

 

 

 

 

 

 

We grabbed lunch at the Stable Cafe, where I loved my Grilled Cheese Sandwich with braised beef, onions, and sauteed mushrooms! (It’s all about the people, places, and passion for food, remember!)

We then crossed town to the famed Sunset Terrace at the Grove Park Inn for dinner… an amazing chilled seafood platter. And another birthday cake, of course!

 

Plus, I had so many wonderful well-wishes from so many friends. Thank you so very, very much!!! I feel mightily blessed. YOU are valued deeply.

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National Foodies Day

May 9th is the day to especially celebrate with everyone else who has a “particular interest in food.” I get it. We all must eat to live, but foodies live to eat!

 

 

 

 

 

We are passionate about food… good food… great food. Life is too short to not eat great foods we love. This is a no-judgment zone. Munch it, crunch it, grill it, bake it, roast it, peel it, slice it, or dice it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Savor the flavor today and every day. ‘Tis no small feat to feast on Life’s “lobacious” deliciousness!

 

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Sing It!

“Heaven!
I’m in Heaven!
And my heart beats so that I can hardly speak.
And I seem to find a happiness I seek…
When I’m looking o’er our pasture by the creek.”

Theme and variation. I was relaxing on the deck and marveling at the sights and sounds around me. “Dancing cheek to cheek” was playing on the radio, and I found myself singing along. (Shockeroo!)

 

 

 

 

 

Applying a little lyrical poetic license to the last line simply sang out with all I was feeling. We live with pastoral and mountain views, rolling meadows, and fabulous forests. Flowers burst into bloom, we eye waterfalls that burst out of mountain tops, and skies seem so blue they nearly hurt your eyes. Baby birds abound in the many nests for second clutches, while adults dutifully run flight school for the earlier babies.

Lake Lure’s famed Chimney Rock rises just up the street from us. We meet new friends constantly… both 2-legged and 4-legged varieties. The four seasons bring distinct variations, although I admit to appreciating the shorter winter the most.

 

 

 

 

We enjoy Nature’s glory to the fullest…. Including those like the opossum that engage in our catch-and-release program.

‘Tis truly a bit of Heaven on earth. And we enjoy it to its fullest.

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National Roast Leg of Lamb Day

Lamb is a delightfully tender, moist, and flavorful meat… when prepared well. When people say that lamb’s flavor is too strong for them, they likely had mutton, not lamb. Or it was overcooked. Lamb is one of those meats that is most delicious at medium-rare. If your personal preference is to never see a bit of pink, then cook lamb to the fall-of-the-bone stage, as with pulled pork.

Roasting a leg of lamb is easy. And carving is even simpler than carving a chicken.

 

Super Simple Roast Leg of Lamb
5-7 lb bone-in leg of lamb, at room temp for 1 hour
3 T olive oil
Kosher salt
Freshly ground black pepper
Garlic powder
1 T each chopped fresh rosemary & oregano

Rub lamb with oil; season well with salt & pepper. Place fat side down on wire rack in foil-lined roasting pan. Sear the top of the meat by placing pan a few inches from the broiler on high for 5 min. Turn meat over and broil another 5 min to sear the fatty side. Remove from oven. Reduce heat to 325°F and move rack to middle of oven. Sprinkle top of roast with garlic and herbs. Loosely tent with foil and place in middle of oven for 1 hour. Uncover and roast up to 15-20 min just until thermometer in thickest part of lamb (but not touching the bone) reads 125°F, which means the roast is rare. Remove from oven, loosely tent with foil and let rest at least 15 min before slicing across the grain.

KISS Tips: Another 5-10° will be added during the resting time, which brings the roast to medium rare. Remove from the oven at 130°F for a medium-done roast at serving time. You can also place 2 c of water in the roasting pan around the lamb and roast your choice of small potatoes, onion wedges, peeled carrots, and sweet peppers, even adding cherry tomatoes in final 20 minutes. Or roast your veggies separately and serve the carved lamb slices over brown or long-grain rice. For fall-off-the-bone lamb, let the lamb roast, covered, for 4 hours till it reaches an internal temp of 160°F. Tented, let it rest as the temperature rises to 175°F. With a bone-in cut of lamb, plan on ½ – 1 lb per serving.

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Can You Say, “Adult Prom?”

We just attended one… Perhaps I should dub it the “Senior” Prom. It was just for folks 21+ and designed to benefit a local outreach helping children and families in need. Such fun for a worthy cause!!!!

 

 

I made some wrist corsages for us gals. And I added matching boutonnieres for the guys, of course.

 

 

First, we went out to dinner at KD’s Sea Shack and enjoyed fabulous food with friends. Always yummy! From clams casino and oysters Rockefeller to scallops wrapped in bacon! Yummy!

 

 

 

 

Then it was off the “The Prom.” We enjoyed a great time and dancing to one of our long-time favorite Carolina bands… “The Trophy Husbands.” Good times and great memories just don’t get better!

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Happiness Is Yours!

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”

–Mahatma Gandhi (1869 – 1948)
Indian lawyer & political ethicist

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National Day of Reason

It can sometimes seem that the world… or at least our little corner of it… has lost all sense of reason… sanity… and sensibility. All thoughtfulness, respect, and even decency can appear to have vanished.

Pig #1 labels someone else as a pig… as if being a pig was a dreadful thing with which Pig #1 does not self-identify. A liar whines because someone else lied. An obvious “political operative” squawks because politics has wormed its way into everything. A young worker gets financially penalized for working hard, saving money, and earning a good credit rating. Technology confounds as social media platforms claim to be mere outlets for open idea exchanges, while judging and squelching ideas and conversations with which they disagree or take umbrage. A devoted socialist calls out for freedom and human rights, while whittling away at them constantly. A nonbeliever criticizes others’ rights to celebrate, practice, or even discuss their differing beliefs.

We are repeatedly hounded to accept false premises as undeniable truths… and when we hear the tales often enough, we may start to accept them. It takes great faith to not to let the “finger pointers” bully us into self-doubt.

“Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.”

— Marcus Aurelius (121-180 AD)
Roman Emperor and philosopher

The last emperor of the Pax Romana, an age of relative peace, calmness, and stability in the Roman Empire commented on the prospects of a future without reason rather astutely. A couple of millennia later, we are still standing, despite generations of challenges.

We must remind ourselves and those around us to fear not. Things tend to have a way to right themselves. We need not lose our good reasoning or hope. Despite those who seem rather openly dedicated to a “cancel culture,” freedom of thought still lives. Keep the faith!

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National Raspberry Popover Day

Popovers deliver as a comfort food extraordinaire! I quite simply adore them… hot from the oven, crispy & golden on the outside, and yet soft and steamy inside… split and slathered with plenty of salty butter and then delightfully devoured. Of course, they can be served on their own, with brunch, alongside a favorite soup, or even filled with a favorite creamy anything… from seafood to beef burgundy.

They are very much like Yorkshire Pudding, but instead of baking the batter in a roast beef’s delectable juices, we use a somewhat deeper version of a muffin tin. The typical popover pan has 6 cups, rather than a dozen. When we butter each tin before filling with batter, we also butter the rims as the batter will “pop” over the cup’s edges as it bakes.

On this day, we are sweetening up these precious puffs. If you already make popovers, it’s a simple matter of adding 1-2 tsp sugar and a couple teaspoons of freshly zested orange and lemon peel to the batter, and up to ½ tsp vanilla extract, if desired. Just before baking place half a dozen fresh raspberries on top of each cup of batter, slightly pressing them down. Bake as usual and serve hot, with a dusting of confectionary sugar…. Plus, butter and some extra raspberry preserves, if you’d like.

It all starts with Super Simple Perfect Popovers. Glad you “popped” in to enjoy my recipe for popovers, baking technique tips, and some variations.

Super Simple Perfect Popovers
4 lg eggs, at room temperature
1½ c whole milk, at room temperature
¾ tsp salt
1 ½ c flour (all-purpose works best)
3 T butter, melted, slightly cooled (and another T for prepping the popover pan)

Use an eggbeater or immersion blender to combine eggs, milk & salt in large bowl. Then add the flour, beating or blending till smooth. Finally, drizzle in the butter, blending till frothy. Let the batter rest 15-20 minutes at room temperature. Meanwhile, preheat oven to 450°F, with 1 rack at the very highest position and another rack in the bottom third of the oven. Place a popover pan on the lower rack to preheat with the oven for 3-5 minutes. Once preheated, remove the pan from the oven and brush the 6 cups and their rims with the extra melted butter. Pour batter into the 6 cups till ¾ full. Place pan in lower third of oven and close door. Without opening the door again, lower the temperature to 400° and let bake 20 minutes. Without opening the door, reduce heat again to 350° and continue baking for 10 more minutes. Remove pan from oven and pierce the top of each popover with the tip of a sharp knife. Immediately split and serve with softened butter or anything else you choose.

KISS Tips: Not opening the door while baking popovers is key, so resist the temptation to “peak.” If you have an oven door with a window, that will have to do. IF in the last 10 minutes of baking, the tops appear to be getting too brown, quickly open the oven door and slip a baking sheet onto the top rack and immediately close the door again. Piercing the tops of popovers when they come out of the oven lets the steam escape to prevent them from getting soggy. Some people like to place their popover pan on a baking sheet before placing it in the oven, but I prefer to let the heat access the cups of the tin to help the bottoms of the popovers also get toasty.

KISS Variations: A favorite savory variation of mine comes from adding 1-2 T dried onion soup mix to the batter along with the flour. To satisfy a sweet tooth, turn these into Raspberry Popovers by adding ½ tsp 100% pure vanilla extract to the beaten egg mixture and 1 T sugar + 1 tsp each lemon zest + orange zest to the flour mixture. Before placing in the oven, add half a dozen fresh raspberries to the top of each popover cup and press down slightly. When they come out of the oven, sprinkle with a dusting of confectioners’ sugar and serve with butter and raspberry preserves or a drizzle of raspberry syrup along with more fresh raspberries, if desired. You can use fresh blueberries, blackberries, cut & pitted fresh cherries, or diced peaches in the same manner, to turn these into Blueberry Popovers, Blackberry Popovers, Cherry Popovers, or Peachy Popovers.

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World Tuna Day

Grilling a gorgeous tuna steak would be la wonderful way to celebrate World Tuna Day! I say this despite the fact that one of my friends comes to mind who eats no fish except for canned tuna. While she would cringe over anything other than tuna from a can, I will delve forward into other ideas.

Sometimes it’s great to be able to present a smashingly awesome appetizer. On World Tuna Day, a raw tuna sushi selection may appeal. My personal preference is to give the tuna a gentle searing, but keeping it totally pink inside, as in tataki. So, be a bit adventurous today and enjoy my Tuna Tataki Crisps! They were inspired by servings I enjoyed in various restaurants over the years, so dining out is another option, but these crisps are really quite simple to make.

Let’s start with the Fried Wonton Chips. Cut 15 squares wonton wrappers in half, either horizontally into rectangles or diagonally into triangles. Deep fry a few at a time in peanut (or canola) oil at 365°F for about 30 seconds, until crisp. Remove from the oil with a slotted spoon and drain on paper towels, salting, if desired.

See… that was easy! Need it even more Super Simple? Use premade flour tortilla chips.

You will also want a topping. Choose a bottled ponzu, sweet Thai chili, tamari or soy, or even a teriyaki sauce. Or make a Wasabi Cream to drizzle. Start with ½ c of sour cream or mayonnaise and mix in 1 T wasabi paste, 1 tsp each: bottled minced ginger, tamari or soy sauce, and fresh lime juice, and a sprinkle of kosher salt & ground black pepper.

I respectfully as that you do not use canned tuna. Go for the real deal with Tuna Tataki. Start with a 6-oz fresh (or frozen, thawed) 1”-thick ahi tuna steak, rinsed & patted dry with paper towels. Then, if desired, cut into 1”-wide “logs” before tossing in 1 T sesame oil (or some lime juice) and sprinkling with a combo of 1 T of both white and black sesame seeds. (Of course, sesame seeds are optional.) Cook the strips in olive oil over med-high heat for just 1-3 min, turning to brown on all sides, but keeping the fish very pink in the center. Remove it from the pan, let it cool slightly, and slice or dice, as you prefer.

To assemble Tuna Tataki Crisps, place your Fried Wonton Chips on a serving platter or individual serving dishes. Top with your choice of baby greens, spring mix, coleslaw, seaweed salad, or sliced/diced avocado… with your prepared Tuna Tataki. Drizzle with Wasabi Cream and garnish with a sprinkle of sesame seeds and a thin strip of pickled sushi ginger; serve immediately.

A 6-oz tuna steak makes enough appetizer portions for 4, or it makes multiple tapas bites. Have fun and be creative. For example, you can turn these into Asian Shrimp Bites, by replacing the tuna with grilled shrimp. Or try Tataki Nachos by using guacamole and mango salsa and topping each with a thin slice (or dice) of seeds-removed jalapeño pepper. The possibilities are endless.

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Loyalty Lives!

 

“You cannot buy loyalty. You cannot buy the devotion of hearts, minds, and souls. You have to earn these things.” 

—Clarence Francis, (1888-1985)
American business executive

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Carry On… You CAN do it!

 

“It’s not the load that breaks you down; it’s the way you carry it.”

— Lena Horne (1917 – 2010)
American singer

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National Sense of Smell Day

 

Mmmmmm… Most of us have memories of certain aromas that make us smile, flash us back in time, trigger thoughts of a special person, or even stir our hunger. On the last Saturday of April each year, we recognize one of our special 5 senses.

 

 

This is a day to stop and smell the roses, as they say. Or breathe deeply to take in the essence of special spices.

 

 

Or recall coffee beans grinding at the front of the A&P. Sometimes, it may be easy to overlook or take our sense of smell for granted… until we catch a head cold!

 

Think for just a moment about smells that may be special to you. One of my favorites is that moment when my nose tells me that the lilacs have blossomed. I also love the clean, sweetness in the air after a spring rainfall.  Or the waft of a nearby campfire… or even freshly cut grass.

Of course, most of my super scents relate to food. (Oh, such a big surprise!) Very little tops the way the whole house smells when I am cooking bacon. But a hot loaf of bread coming out of the oven comes close. Or a pot of sensational soup on the stove or some other aromatic dish.

 

 

 

 

I am most grateful that I am blessed with many senses, but today I say a special “thank you” for the sense of smell.

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National Blueberry Pie Day

My mother made the best blueberry pies EVER! Her homemade piecrusts turned out light, flaky, and perfect every time. Her blueberries with those madly marvelous small-sized wild berries that we all dutifully picked each year and then froze for incredible edible enjoyment for the rest of the year. She never added too much sugar either, just enough to bring out the bountiful berry juices. If I want to slide into Memory Lane euphoria, I can simply remember savoring a scintillating slice of Mom’s blueberry pie, still warm from the oven and usually adorned with a scoop of vanilla ice cream.

I admit that I never developed the patience to deliver her consistently perfect piecrusts. And I no longer make the annual pilgrimage to pick the bountiful northern New England berries. Further, Mom is enjoying her well-earned retirement, although she regularly delights her friends and family with some of our favorite goodies.

On this National Blueberry Pie Day 2023, I will share with you my 1980 recipe for a pie that combines strawberries, blueberries, and whipped cream. See, we’re on the right track! Make it now or tuck this recipe away for a perfect summer’s day delight.

 

Super Simple Red, White & Blueberry Pie
(We now know this as a classic at Café Martin.)

4 lbs strawberries, washed & hulled (8 heaping cups total):
4 heaping cups sliced (these should be fresh berries), halved if small berries
4 heaping cups sliced berries (can be frozen), then mashed into 2 heaping cups mashed
16 small, attractive berries for garnishing (8 on each pie)
1/3 c sugar (or fave substitute, such as coconut sugar or monkfruit)
4 T cornstarch
2 T lemon, lime or orange juice (or combination)
¼ c cranberry juice
red food coloring, if desired
2 T butter
2 c fresh blueberries
2 prepared pie shells (store-bought shortbread cookie crust or regular baked & cooled)
Fresh (or canned) whipped cream, and plenty of it

In large saucepan, mix mashed strawberries with sugar, cornstarch & juices.  Cook over low heat, stirring until thickened & transparent.  Add a few drops of red food coloring, if desired.  Stir in butter, till melted.  Add the sliced/halved strawberries & the blueberries (saving some blueberries for garnish), stirring to coat with glaze.  Pour into shells, pressing to fill air pockets.  Chill thoroughly (at least 3-4 hours, or overnight).  At serving time, top with whipped cream; garnish with small, whole strawberries & the reserved blueberries.  Makes 2 pies.

KISS Note:  I have no idea what to do with leftovers. There have never been any.

Go for full-sized pies or mini tarts. Add currents, raspberries, blackberries, and even fresh mint leaves to your toppings, if desired. Or go extra Super Simple and serve the filling and topping over split hot biscuits as Red, White & Blueberry Shortcake!

Yes, this is one of many recipes in one of the first cookbooks I first published in 2007. The paperback and digital editions of “Fifty Years of Fabulous Family Favorites: Starters, Sippers, & Sweets” remains popular on Amazon and other sites.

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National Poem in Your Pocket Day

The Academy of American Poets started this tradition in 2008 to recognize poetry and American poets. Carry a favorite poem in your pocket and pull it out and read it on this day. You can read it aloud outside your own front door, to co-workers, or in some public place, regardless of how unexpected it might be!

Perhaps you’ll choose something serious or emotionally moving. I like those that ring with thought or philosophy or downright silly humor. Let me share 3 little gems with you on National Poem in Your Pocket Day. They all come from Americans born in the 1800’s… Humor and insight are indeed ageless.

“My candle burns at both ends;
It will not last the night;
But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends—
It gives a lovely light!”

Edna St. Vincent Millay (1892 – 1950)
American poet

 

 

“I’m nobody! Who are you?
Are you nobody, too?
Then there’s a pair of us – don’t tell!
They’d banish us, you know.

How dreary to be somebody!
How public, like a frog
To tell your name the livelong day
To an admiring bog!”

Emily Dickinson (1830 – 1886)
American Poet

“I never saw a Purple Cow,
I never hope to see one,
But I can tell you, anyhow,
I’d rather see than be one!”

— Gelett Burgess (1866 – 1951)
American artist

#PocketPoem

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National Pretzel Day

“Twist like a pretzel without losing your salt.”

 

That was the theme of a popular “talk” I used to deliver as a business and motivational speaker in past decades. And I still see it as a worthy skill to this day.

We typically think of pretzels as a yummy comfort food snack. I’ve replaced the crunchy ones out of a bag with big, freshly baked varieties.

Wendy Tirollo and the giant pretzel

 

 

I recall experiencing my first jumbo size at a sports bar in Las Vegas… in the picture, that’s our friend, Wendy Tirollo sporting the pretzel bracelets. We still love the monster varieties and the sticks, too… crispy outside, while soft and tender inside.

 

 

 

 

We still enjoy the big varietals at the Iron Key Brewery and the to-die-for sticks at the Green River Tavern… both served with beer cheese and zesty mustard on the side for dipping.

 

 

 

Top them with anything you like, from nuts and seeds to everything bagel seasoning… For me, please make it plenty of good, coarse kosher salt! So, twist like a pretzel when you must, but never lose your salt!

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National Hug a Plumber Day

 

 

Bob & Glenna Burnham at their wedding reception, June 24, 1950

 

 

My Dad is the plumber I celebrate today. Though he is no longer with us on this planet, I send Bob Burnham my hug in heaven.

 

 

 

 

Dad in his greenhouse 1987

 

He and Mom got married in Goffstown, NH on June 24, 1950. In all, they enjoyed 70 years together, and everyone who knew him benefited. All my friends were taught to call him Uncle Bob, whether or not they were my cousins. Dad was also a great gardener, clever cook, and fabulous father.

 

At our wedding, September 8, 2001

 

 

I was blessed with this gentle man in my life. He taught me so very much about hard work, caring for others, and loving life. Thank you, Dad, forever and ever!

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Dig In!!!

“Your diamonds are not in far distant mountains or in yonder seas; they are in your own backyard if you but dig for them.”

— Russell H. Conwell (1843-1925)
American lawyer, educator, writer, and minister

For me, this quote is a reminder to count our blessings. We so easily take what’s most precious for granted as we get wrapped up in daily stresses and stressors. So, let’s dig a little and enjoy the gems.

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National Picnic Day

Each year on April 23, we celebrate National Picnic Day. Take some time to spread out a blanket anywhere and enjoy peace and tranquility or perhaps just listen to Nature or watch waves lapping a shore or catch an outdoor concert. Share the time with special people or a special person or a pet or simply by yourself.

Take some favorite foods to nibble, of course. Because food is central to the picnic experience, here are 3 Super Simple considerations for you.

Super Simple Caprese Sandwiches or Kebabs
Slices of fresh, ripe tomatoes (or cherry tomatoes for kebabs)
Slices of mozzarella cheese (or mini balls for kebabs)
Fresh basil leaves
Balsamic glaze or a favorite pesto
Bread or rolls (or mini bamboo or wooden skewers for kebabs)

Layer the goodies on your bread (closed or open-faced) or thread on your skewers and drizzle.

Super Simple Peach Salsa
¼ c chopped red or sweet onion, microwaved & chilled
2 c diced peaches or nectarines
2 diced Roma tomatoes
½ c diced, seeded cucumber
½ jalapeño, seeded & finely diced
2 T chopped fresh cilantro
Juice of 1 large or 2 small limes
½ tsp salt & ¼ tsp pepper

Combine and chill for 2-24 hours. Serve with favorite tortilla chips.

KISS Tip: You can make this extra Super Simple by simply stirring peaches into a favorite bottled salsa!

Super Simple Sparkling Lemonade
1 lb hulled & sliced fresh, ripe strawberries
¼ – 1/3 c granulated monkfruit or sugar
½ c water
¾ c freshly squeezed lemon juice (or lime, if preferred)
4 c Prosecco or sparkling water (for a family-friendly version)

Sprinkle berries with sweetener in a bowl; stir twice as it rests for 1 hour. Add the half cup water & process till smooth with an immersion blender (or mash thoroughly). Strain through a fine sieve or cheesecloth to remove seeds. Stir in lemon juice and refrigerate. To serve, divide mixture among 4 glasses atop ice cubes; then pour the bubbly over the top. If desired, you can garnish with a lemon wedge, fresh berry, or mint sprig.

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Judgment

 

“We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done.”

— Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

(1807 – 1882)
American poet

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High Five!

We’re taking a look back today at National High Five Day, which is always the third Thursday of April.  Officially, that was yesterday.

We recognize the gesture of greeting, happiness, celebration, or congratulations. It’s easy to cheer someone else on, but we often struggle to support ourselves with the same confidence. So, why not start today and each day celebrating yourself with a high five!?!

According to the Oxford Dictionary, the “high five” has been around since the early 1980s and is related to the slang expressions “give me five”, “slap me five”, “slip me five”, and “give me some skin”. It is the recognizable request for some form of handshake with the “five” referring to the digits of the hand.

Like the “fist bump,” such gestures convey respect, approval, and companionship. And, yes, such a fun “trick” to teach to our favorite furry friends!

 

Origins are up for debate. Most people think it likely started in baseball or basketball. Some specifically recall Glenn Burk and Dusty Baker of the Los Angeles Dodgers sharing a high five on October 2, 1977, following an important home run.  Others credit the Louisville Cardinals basketball players Wiley Brown and Derek Smith during the 1978-89 season. The usual “low five”, a popular symbol of support since around 1920 in the Black community, was enthusiastically delivered up high for emphasis.

In truth, there are possibilities that go back much further. A high five-style raised hand slap is depicted as far back as 3200 BC in ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics.

So, be it yesterday, today, or tomorrow, this is a good day for a high five. The power of support and solidarity is always welcome. So, here’s a high five to y’all!

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Trust

 

“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”

— William Shakespeare 1564 – 1616)
English playwright

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Happiness

 

“There is no path to happiness; happiness is the path.”

— Siddhartha Gautama (the Buddha)
(Born 564 BC)
Founder of Buddhism

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More on Ellis Island

Yesterday I mentioned that Ellis Island had a dark past. Before becoming a major immigration center, it was used for hanging condemned prisoners, pirates, criminals, and mutinous sailors from the early 1800s through 1839. It then served as a Navy munitions depot before being repurposed as a federal immigration station.

Photo courtesy of the New York Public Library

In truth, Ellis Island was not an immigrant’s first stop in America. Waters around the island are not deep enough for the steamships, so ships initially docked and unloaded all passengers in Manhattan. U.S. citizens and all other first- and second-class passengers entered the country there. However, all passengers in steerage were then herded onto ferries and shuttled to Ellis Island for processing.

Photo courtesy of the New York Public Library

Upon arrival at Ellis Island, immigrants were ushered into the Great Hall to undergo a series of examinations for both physical and mental fitness. This is where some immigrants’ tags were marked with chalk and taken for additional screening, hospitalization, or deportation. Though America heralded its open immigration policy, anyone could be denied admittance if it seemed likely that person could become a financial burden for the government.

Despite folklore to the contrary, foreign-sounding names were not shortened nor “Americanized” at Ellis Island. Immigration officers merely checked names against each ship’s own passenger manifest. Name changes typically happened before or while boarding ships in foreign ports.

There are many more “little known facts” regarding immigration to America. For example, women could not leave Ellis Island with a man not related to them. Other automatic detainees included stowaways, alien seamen, anarchists, Bolsheviks, criminals, and anyone suspected of being “immoral.”

In 1790, US naturalization required 2 years of residency and “good moral character. Plus, the applicant had to be a “free white person.” In 1795 the residency period was extended to 5 years and then to 14 years in 1798, but back to 5 years in 1802. In 1870 the right of citizenship was extended to those of African origin.

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To be admitted during the nation’s open immigration years, arriving people had to be seen as healthy and able to enter the workforce. Any sign of declining physical or mental health could get someone deported. More than 60 diseases and disabilities could disqualify a person from entry. Sick children were separated from their parents. Wheezing, coughing, shuffling, or even limping could get a person hospitalized, rather than admitted to the U.S. In truth, tens of thousands of immigrants were hospitalized on the south side of the island, where they were held for treatment and possible deportation. More than 3,500 immigrants died in this hospital.

When the Civil War began in 1861, the demand for workers increased. Pro-immigration Republicans and President Abraham Lincoln advocated for better immigration policies. Progressives championed literacy tests and “various other eugenics-inspired racial and ethnic exclusions of Jews, Asians, and Africans.” By 1875 immigration restrictions included bans on criminals, people with contagious diseases, polygamists, anarchists, beggars, and importers of prostitutes. Ellis Island became more famous for deportations than immigration. In the early 1900s, many Progressives argued that immigrants “impeded the achievement of an ideal society, committed crimes, and abused welfare.”

U.S. immigration sentiment had grown quite negative by April 1917. People sought restrictions, fearing that many of the newcomers were racially inferior. Warnings included the danger of our “melting pot” philosophy bringing an impoverished, criminal, radical, and diseased horde.

In 1921, President Warren G. Harding signed into law the first Quota Act, ending America’s open-door policy. The new law set monthly quotas and limited admission of each nationality to 3% of its representation in the 1910 U.S. Census. By 1925, the government shifted the inspection process from American ports to U.S. Consulates abroad. Ellis Island then operated primarily as a detention and “deportation point for undesirable immigrants.”

Wear and tear took its toll on the buildings at Ellis Island. Eventually, restorations were ordered, and the facilities opened for tourist visitors during our nation’s Bicentennial in 1976.  Some 3 million visitors tour Ellis Island annually. People can access Ellis on the same ferry as the one to the Statue of Liberty. While on the island, many look up ancestors who first arrived there.

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National Ellis Island Family History Day

If you love ancestry, checking out Ellis Island is a riotous “rabbit hole” to investigate. I had family enter the U.S. there, as did the nearly 40% of American citizens who can trace at least 1 ancestor to Ellis Island. 40%! That’s HUGE! It all started in 1892.

 

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Three unaccompanied minors, 17-year-old Annie Moore, a teenager from County Cork in Ireland, and her 11 and 7-year-old brothers, were the first immigrants to come through Ellis Island on January 1, 1892. They were among the 124 passengers aboard the steamship Nevada. On one single day in 1907, more than 11,000 immigrants arrived. Ellis Island, named for Samuel Ellis, its last private owner, served as the port of entry for more than 12 million immigrants, until the site was permanently closed in November 1954.

Ellis Island lies between NY and NJ… not far from the Statue of Liberty. Originally 3.3 acres in size, it was intentionally expanded to 27.5 acres to accommodate more people and buildings. Ellis Island sits in the waters of New Jersey, but an 1834 agreement stated the island belonged to New York. A 1998 agreement stated that the original 3.3 acres of land belonged to NY, but the additional 24.2 acres belonged to NJ.

Regardless of which state owned the island, all entrants approaching the United States were stopped for a quarantine checkpoint off Staten Island before their ships were even permitted to enter New York Harbor. Doctors check for dangerous contagious diseases, such as smallpox, yellow fever, plague, cholera, and leprosy. Plus, travelers in steerage and their belongings were sprayed down with disinfectant. After inspection, immigration officers then boarded the ship and began clearing U.S. citizens and all other 1st and 2nd class passengers. Most travelers, those in steerage, were given manifest tags to present to U.S. Customs officers to identify passengers. No passports or visas were required, nor were any papers needed.

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80% of those arriving spent 3-5 hours getting through the Ellis Island process and were then admitted. However, the process for the other 20% could take a couple of days, weeks, months, or in rare cases, a couple of years. While waiting, free meals were served. This usually included beef stew, potatoes, bread, bananas, and ice cream. Dormitories were provided for longer waiting periods. About 2% or less than half a million people were denied entry and sent back to their ports of origin.

Arriving in 1916 as a small child, along with an older brother and his mother, my Armenian grandfather and his family were nearly among those deported. That fact is visible today upon examining the records at Ellis Island. Language challenges had made it difficult to help officials understand that his mother had been badly injured by Ottoman Turk soldiers, rather than being ill with some dreaded disease. Though it took a lot of time and tears, they finally were able to find someone who could help communicate, and they were able to join relatives waiting on the shore, rather than being sent back to Europe.

I was most pleased to share their store in the first two books of my Destiny historical fiction trilogy. “Destiny of Dreams” tells a blunt and difficult account of my ancestors’ struggles in Armenia, and “Destiny of Determination” follows the survivors arriving at Ellis Island and building a new life in America. (The concluding book in the trilogy is due for release this Fall.)

 

Tomorrow, I will continue sharing about Ellis Island. We’ll look at why it earned the “Island of Tears” nickname and how it grew out of its dark past into a popular tourist destination.

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