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“Sanity is a madness put to good use.”
— George Santayana (1863 – 1952)
Spanish philosopher, poet & novelist

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“Sanity is a madness put to good use.”
— George Santayana (1863 – 1952)
Spanish philosopher, poet & novelist
“A committee is a cul-de-sac down which ideas are lured and then quietly strangled.”
— Sir Thomas George Barnett Cocks (1907 – 1989)
British clerk in the Parliament of the UK

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“I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.”
— Robin Williams (1951 – 2014)
American actor & comedian
My wish on this Valentine’s Day is that everyone feels loved. Dig deep. May no one feel alone, even if you are not. You are valued. You are worthy.

“I believe that the greatest gift you can give your family and the world is a healthy you.”
— Joyce Meyer (1943 – )
American Christian author and speaker

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“Freedom is not America’s gift to the world; it is Almighty God’s gift to every man and woman in this world.”
— George W. Bush (1946 – )
American politician, businessman, & former US Air Force officer
43rd President of the U.S. (1995 – 2000)
On National Peppermint Patty Day we celebrate the peppermint-filled chocolate goodies. The oldest is credited to the Quiggins family on the Isle of Man in the middle of the northern Irish Sea in 1840. Perhaps the best known, the York Peppermint Patties, joined us 100 years later. Treat yourself to your favorite peppermint patty today!

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“Freedom is not worth having if it does not connote freedom to err.”
— Mahatma Gandhi (1869-1948)
Indian lawyer, spiritual & political leader, and nonviolent resistance advocate
“The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.”
— Albert Schweitzer (1875 – 1965)
German-French polymath, philosopher, physician & Nobel laureate
I am confident our purpose does not include mocking, scorning, or judging those who believe differently than we do. We all have the same human rights to be both right and wrong. Compassion bridges differing perspectives. Regardless of hateful, divisive, distrustful, or misguided rhetoric, we all win when we exercise patience, especially with those who lack compassion.

“I predict that one of these two teams will win the Super Bowl.”
— Gilbert Gottfried (1955 – 2022)
American stand-up comedian & actor
May the best (Patriots) team (Patriots) win (Patriots)!
Go Pats!

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“You must first be a believer if you would be an achiever.”
— Unknown

“If more of us valued food and cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.”
J. R. R. (John Ronald Reuel) Tolkien (1892 – 1973)
English writer, poet & scholar

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“It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.”
— Anne Morrow Lindbergh (1906 – 2001)
American writer & aviator

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“Be courteous to all, but intimate with few; and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.”
— George Washington (1732-1799)
US statesman; 1st US President (1789-97)
General of the Revolutionary Army; surveyor, farmer
On National Feed the Birds Day, let’s remember to help our feathered friends a bit. Typically, I don’t suggest feeding the birds unless you can do it all through the winter season. But this has been a particularly harsh winter, so on this day of days, go for it! Sunflower seeds or a chunk of suet with lots of seeds attached helps give them the fat they need to make up for no insects to gobble up.
For National Groundhog Day, we all got the news we did not want…. Winter is not ending early. This past weekend, North Carolina set a record, getting snow in all 100 counties with 17” in much of the southeastern coast, including a whopping 19.5” in Peletier. (We got lucky…. Just 6 or 7”.) Mount Mitchell, the highest peak east of the Mississippi, has only gotten 11” of snow for this entire season. Crazy.
So, will Punxsutawney Phil be correct? Another 6 weeks of winter? We usually only get a total of 6 weeks of winter, so I think we emerge within the next 2. Friends up north AND in Florida repeatedly say they have had more than enough of this winter already. Happy Hour on the deck, anyone? Come on, Spring!

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“We have flown the air like birds and swum the sea like fishes, but we have yet to learn the simple act of walking the earth like brothers.”
— Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929 – 1968)
American Baptist minister & civil rights activist

“Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge.”
— Charles Darwin (1809 – 1882)
English naturalist, geologist, and biologist

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“Never interrupt someone doing something you said couldn’t be done.”
— Amelia Earhart (1897 – 1937 disappeared)
American aviation pioneer

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“As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master. This expresses my idea of democracy.”
— Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865)
American statesman; 16th U.S. President: 1861-65;
assassinated following Civil War
“Growing old is no more than a bad habit which a busy man has no time to form.”
— Andre Maurois (1885 – 1967)
French author
A dear friend sent me the attached video. Lovely music and sweet sentiments about our birthday thinking. (Thank you, Bevy, dahhhhling!) Growing older is a blessing; growing up is optional.

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“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I’ve learned, the hard way, that some poems don’t rhyme, and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, and end.”
— Gilda Radner (1946 – 1989)
American actress and comedian
Even if it didn’t happen yesterday… please, let’s be good to each other… today and every day going forward.
“Before you give up hope, turn back and read the attacks that were made on Lincoln.”
— Bruce Fairchild Barton (1886 – 1967)
American author, advertising executive;
NY politician, US House of Representatives (1937 – 41)

Don’t let chaos drive you crazy. Never give up. Never lose hope!

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“Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear, and the blind can see.”
— Mark Twain (1835-1910)
19th Century American author and humorist;
pen name for Samuel Langhorne Clemens
We can choose to be rabid in our righteousness… or we can choose to be compassionate in our common humanity.

Photo by Katelyn Perry
Perfect for National Compliment Day:
“We’re not getting older, we’re getting BETTER!”
Okay… now you say it to me.
“‘History repeats itself’ and ‘History never repeats itself’ are about equally true… We never know enough about the infinitely complex circumstances of any past event to prophesy the future by analogy.”
— George Macaulary Trevelyan (1876 – 1962)
English historian
Celebrate National Southern Food Day. This is a cuisine smothered in YUM! Go for fried chicken, barbecue, catfish, grits, biscuits, gumbo, peach cobbler, jambalaya, fish dip, and soooo much more!

Today we offer Zesty Gumbo Kebabs, originally published in “Dockside Dining: A Second Helping” in 2014.
Zesty Gumbo Kebabs
We love grilling and often prep a variety of foods to serve as large or mini kebabs. With this recipe, use your favorites: kielbasa, sausage, chicken, shrimp, and/or meatballs, plus fruits and veggies.
24 slices (3/4 – 1” thick) kielbasa and/or spicy chicken, meatballs, or pork
6 links sausage, cooked
24 large or x-large raw shrimp, shelled & deveined
24 chunks pineapple or peach
2 sweet red bell peppers, cut in a total of 24 (1”) chunks
3 fresh, thin zucchini, not peeled, cut in a total of 24 slices
Other veggies, such as slices of fresh corn on the cob, mushroom caps, cherry tomatoes, or chunks of sweet onion
1 small can frozen limeade concentrate (about 1 cup)
¼ c virgin olive oil
¼ – 1/3 c your favorite hot sauce (such as Mike’s Red Hot)
1 jalapeño pepper, seeded & finely chopped
On 12 metal or warm water-soaked bamboo skewers, threat proteins, veggies, & fruit, alternating for color (or cooking each type all together, as you prefer). Mix remaining ingredients together and drizzle or brush over prepared kebabs in dish with sides. Cover and refrigerate 1 hour. Grill 5 min per side on cooking oil sprayed med-hot grill, basting with marinade. Serve over hot rice. Makes 6 entrée servings of 2 skewers or 12 tapas kebabs.

KISS Note: Do not marinate longer than 1 hour. The citrus in lime literally starts to “cook” the shrimp, as when making ceviche.

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“The greatest leader is not necessarily the one who does the greatest things. He is the one that gets the people to do the greatest things.”
— Ronald Reagan (1911 – 2004)
American actor & California Governor
40th President of the United States (1981 – 89)
“It is better to light a candle than to curse at the darkness.”
— William Lonsdale Watkinson (1838 – 1925)
English minister (in a 1907 sermon)
(Quote was popularized by Eleanor Roosevelt.)
Let us choose to light candles, rather than make the darkness even darker.

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“We have committed the Golden Rule to memory; let us now commit it to life.”
— Edwin Markham (1852 – 1940)
American poet

That rather well sums up “Compassion, and Other Life Seasonings”, my latest edition in the Life Seasonings mini guide series. We can all do better.

Are you ready for some football!!??!
(I know, you can’t tell which team I’m rooting for.)

Photo by Roberta Sant’Anna
“We all have ability. The difference is how we use it.”
— Stevie Wonder (1950 – )
American singer, songwriter, & musician
On National Nothing Day, we are supposed to do nothing but relax and take a breather from the daily pressures. (Okay… comedy and sarcasm seem appropriate.)
“Old age ain’t no place for sissies.”
— Bette Davis (1908 – 1989)
American actress
There are many great quotes about aging. The bottom line remains true… With old age, our eyesight may weaken, but our ability to see straight through people grows stronger. Little is clearer than that.

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“If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however, if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that.”
— Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 – 1832)
German writer & polymath
We all need to do better at helping each other become what we are capable of becoming, with love and compassion ruling our hearts. We can do this.
“It isn’t what we have in life, but who we have in our life that matters.”
— Unknown
My most sincere thanks and gratitude to each and every person in my life who has made a compassionate difference… even when I may have failed to tell you how precious you are.

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Celebrate National Rubber Ducky Day. Per “Sesame Street,” January 13th is Rubber Duckie’s birthday, so sing along if you recall #16 on Billboard’s Hot 100 in 1970.

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“History does not long entrust the care of freedom to the weak or the timid.”
— Dwight Eisenhower 1890 – 1969)
American military officer &
34th President of the United States

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This is just one of many delightful messages I have received from a dear friend. Each line widened my smile and brought more laughter. May you also enjoy!
I have everything that I wanted as a teenager, only 60 years later.
I don’t have to go to school or work. I get an allowance every month.
I have my own pad. I don’t have a curfew.
I have a driver’s license and my own car.
The people I hang around with are not scared of getting pregnant and I don’t have acne.
Life is great.
I changed my car horn to gunshot sounds. People get out of the way much faster now.
Gone are the days when girls used to cook like their mothers.
Now they drink like their fathers.
I didn’t make it to the gym today. That makes five years in a row.
I decided to stop calling the bathroom “the John” and renamed it “the Jim”.
I feel so much better saying I went to the Jim this morning.
Old age is coming at a really bad time.
When I was a child, I thought “nap time” was a punishment. Now it feels like a small vacation.
The biggest lie I tell myself is… ” I don’t have to write that down; I’ll remember it”.
I don’t have gray hair… I have “wisdom highlights”! (I’m just very wise.)
If God wanted me to touch my toes, He would’ve put them on my knees.
Last year I joined a support group for procrastinators. We haven’t met yet.
Why do I have to press one for English when you’re just going to transfer me to someone I can’t understand anyway?
Of course, I talk to myself. Sometimes I need expert advice.
At my age “Getting Lucky” means walking into a room and remembering why I came in there.
I have more friends I should send this to, but right now I can’t remember their names.
Now, I’m wondering… did I send this to you, or did you send it to me?
We can choose to rant and rave… or not. We can choose accusations and name calling… or not. We can choose to support each other and work together… or not. I choose strength through compassion and unity.
“We are only as strong as we are united, as weak as we are divided.”
— J.K. Rowling (1965 – )
British author & philanthropist;
From her “Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire”

Photo by Ben Kerckx
On National Static Electricity Day, have fun exploring the science. Rub some balloons or scuff your feet along a run before touching a doorknob. You remember! January 9th is the one day each year when it’s fun to recognize the imbalance of positive and negative charges. (Hah! Love those double meanings.)
“I shall derive great satisfaction from a cooperation with you in the pleasing though arduous task of insuring to our fellow citizens the blessings which they have a right to expect from a free, efficient, and equal government.”
— George Washington (1732 – 1799)
Commander of the Continental Army;
1st President of the United States (1789 – 1797);
Words from his first State of the Union address to Congress in Federal Hall in New York City on January 8, 1790
(Photo by Brigitte Werner)