Escalate Not

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I cannot help but note that one reprisal begets another… forevermore. The US warns Iran and its proxies to not assault us or else suffer the consequences. But Syria does anyway. Then they are angered that the US responds, as promised. So, they fire more rockets at us in reprisal for our reprisal.

This is the sort of escalation that keeps feuds and hatred going for hundreds of years. Even when one terrorist regime is stopped, the next generation grows up to start it all over again.

Hatred and violence never make a positive combination and never will!

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National Chocolate Day

Sometimes you feel like a nut. Sometimes you don’t. But if chocolate is a passion, try these super simple beauties! Your tastebuds will thank you.

Super Simple Dark Chocolate Pecans
1 ½ bars Lily’s intensely dark chocolate
5 oz pecan halves
5 T coconut oil
1 tsp pure vanilla extract
1-2 tsp ground cinnamon
Pink Himalayan salt

Melt chocolate & coconut oil together for 1 min in microwave, stirring at 20-second intervals till smooth. Stir in vanilla, cinnamon & salt. Add pecans, stirring till coated. Spoon into 24 silicone mold squares, 3-4 pecans per section. Or spread on parchment paper. Salt heavily. Freeze 30 min.

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Liberty!

 

“When governments fear the people there is liberty. When the people fear the government there is tyranny.”

–Thomas Jefferson (1743 – 1826)
2nd US Vice President; 3rd US President; architect & author

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Honesty

 

“If you give me six lines written by the most honest man, I will find something in them to hang him.”

— Cardinal Richelieu (1585-1642)
(given name: Armand Jean du Plessis)
French statesman and clergy

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Life!

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“What is life? It is the flash of a firefly in the night. It is the breath of a buffalo in the wintertime. It is the little shadow which runs across the grass and loses itself in the sunset.”

— Crowfoot (1821 – 1890)
Native American warrior and orator

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Feast of Good & Plenty!

Go ahead. Satisfy your sweet tooth today, because we’re celebrating the pink- and white-coated candy from by-gone days. You either love it or hate it, but Good & Plenty is the oldest brand of candy in the U.S.A., originating in Philadelphia in 1893. The Choo Choo Charlie TV commercials boosted its popularity in the 1950s. Come on… sing it! “Charlie says, ‘Love my Good & Plenty.’ Charlie says, ‘Really rings the bell.’ Charlie says, ‘Love my Good & Plenty. Don’t know any other candy that I like so well.’”

CHOO choo choo choo! CHOO choo choo choo!

While the choo-choo-chewy centers may not be true licorice, licorice extract gives a satisfying finish.

Okay. My teeth hurt thinking about this. Time for some potato chips. (Sorry, Charlie.)

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Peace

“When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.”


– Jimi Hendrix (1942-1970)

American guitarist, songwriter, and singer

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Advance Reviews for “Destiny of Daring”

Though a plethora of personal life issues had me running wayyyyy behind in finishing the 3rd book in my Destiny historical fiction trilogy, I was still able to zip a few advance copies out to some reviewers. I am beyond humbled at the unanimously positive responses. Five Stars are landing across the board for “Destiny of Daring: Never Forget” ahead of the November 1st release. Here’s a bit from Amy’s Bookshelf Reviews. (I added a couple of her comments to the book’s cover.)

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Masterfully written!

I am a big fan of Cathy Burnham Martin and this trilogy. I couldn’t wait to read the last iteration, hoping it could be more. This author has a grand imagination, and talent for showing the story. I recommend reading the book from the beginning, including the Dedication, Foreword, and the list of characters. I also hope that you have read the first two books in this trilogy, although they can be read standalone. The reader will get the full picture of the family dynamic and the Armenian culture. I know I learned a lot. Meet the Gulumian Family. Cassie is the granddaughter of Hrant and Marjorie, and she has a gift. There are horrors in their past, how Armenians were treated in their own homeland, and suddenly, without having given her details to the tortures, Cassie dreams of her family’s past, and tells them the stories. Cassie shares stories of Armenians by writing their story, and some would have never known about their family lives had she not written their stories. And that’s just the beginning of this magnificently written historical tale, with all the hints of truth. The story is endearing and heartbreaking. An embraceable story. An emotional rollercoaster. Un-put-downable! What an inspirational title. Bring the tissues, and don’t put it down until the end. Destiny of Daring is a definite recommendation by Amy’s Bookshelf Reviews. Amy’s Bookshelf Reviews recommends that anyone who reads this book also write a review.

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Have Words

 

“Words form the thread on which we string our experiences.”

— Aldous Huxley (1894 – 1963)
English writer & philosopher

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No More!

There is no decent nor acceptable rationalization or justification for terrorism. Period.

Such acts are cowardly efforts to inflict pain and suffering among innocent people who are not responsible for the perpetrators’ anger, issues, or complaints. And yet, these are the deliberately inhumane actions of radical groups who are angry because negotiations failed to get them what they wanted.

Unlike when the Ottoman attempted to annihilate the Armenians or the Nazis tried to obliterate the Jews, we now have social media, so all filters are removed. Cell phone videos reveal sickening images and videos coming out of Israel that reveal a complete lack of human decency, to say the very least. And yet, as appalled as most people are after observing or learning of the multitude of heinous Hamas crimes against families, women, and children in Israel, I still found myself wanting to understand how so many otherwise seemingly sane people in the United States could possibly be attending rallies and cheering for Hamas.

History and society often clash, but it helped my perspective to read one particular article. This is the link to “Israel and Palestine: Where Should History Begin and Should It Matter.”

Most Read of 2021: “Israel” and “Palestine”: Where Should History Begin, and Should it Matter?

And yet, I still contend that it is nothing less than viscious for any leadership to encourage terrorism and utterly barbaric behavior against innocent people. We humans are desperately slow to evolve.

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Friendship

 

“It’s not what we have in life, but who we have in our life that matters.”

— Unknown

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International Leggin’ Day

Seeing three well-dressed men hosting a TV sports program the other evening, I couldn’t help but comment out loud that I was not impressed with the new men’s suit craze that has the pants so tight they look like leggings. A man sitting near my husband overhead and interjected that the style is called “trim.” Someone else said they are called “meggins.” Ummmm. Nope. And it’s not just skinny jeans. We’re talking expensive suits. They’re “leggins,” and I hope the fad fades sooner rather than later.

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National Mulligan Day

‘Tis beautiful to turn the page to a clean sheet of paper. Reset. Realign. Restart. Redo. Just breathe.

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Global Cat Day

Purrrrrfect! Cats are family, friends, and neighbors for many of us. Celebrate the feline and help protect kitties, too! In recognition of Global Cat Day, the writer in me invites you to share.

 

May I include a cat story or picture of your beloved feline in an upcoming book? If so, please email CathyBurnhamMartin@gmail.com with your cat’s photo and/or story, the kitty’s name, and how you would like the kitty’s human to be identified, along with the name for the photo credit.

And I will keep you posted when that book is ready in 2024!

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Global Handwashing Day

Most folks likely see this as a day to emphasize washing our hands to prevent the spread of germs. Important for me is a twist on Global Handwashing Day that suggests we all wash our hands of hatred, bigotry, jealousy, violence, anger, divisiveness, control freakishness, intolerance, terrorism, political self-righteousness, disrespect, animosity, and all the other crap that makes society seem lost and crazy.

“Remember, kidnapping, raping, and torturing women and children is probably not the best way for ‘peace to prevail.’”

— Dan Bongino on October 8, 2023
Host of “The Dan Bongino Show”

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Celebrate Life!

 

At whatever age we find ourselves, we should celebrate the opportunity to live and be free daily. Take nothing for granted. We don’t have to look very far to see how fragile and precious both life and freedom truly are.

 

 

 

 

Today we are especially grateful for our two beautiful granddaughters… Adaline and Ayla. Ada is 3 and Ayla is 1. Today’s celebration of their October birthdays brings the gift of many smiles and much love.

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Count to Ten

 

“When angry, count ten before you speak. If very angry, a hundred.”

— Thomas Jefferson 1743 – 1826)
3rd president of the United States; diplomat, architect, and philosopher
(in a letter to T.J. Smith on February 21, 1825)

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October 12 Is National Vermont Day

Vermont, the Green Mountain State, was the 14th state, joining the U.S. on March 4, 1791 as the first state following the 13th original colonies. On November 25, 1858, Vermont became one of the first states to abolish slavery.

 

At 160 miles long and 80 miles wide, people consider Vermont to be a small state, but it is the 2nd largest state in New England, behind Maine. It is the 2nd smallest state in population, just behind Wyoming. Vermont is big on raising cows and is home to nearly half of all New England dairy farms. And it has the nation’s highest human to cattle ratios, coming in at 0.41 humans to every cow.

With all those dairy farms, it is little wonder that Vermont is known for some of the nation’s finest cheeses. Also, Vermont is home to the famed Ben & Jerry’s ice cream (founded in 1981). Ben & Jerry’s donates ice cream waste to local farmers, who feed it to their hogs. (Reportedly, the hogs like all flavors except Mint Oreo.)

(You just knew I would have to talk food!)If you have a sweet tooth, you likely already know that Vermont is the nation’s largest producer of maple syrup, producing more than 500,000 gallons each year.

 

And here are a couple of little-known facts about Vermont. To preserve the scenic beauty, the Green Mountain State is one of just 4 that forbid billboard advertising (along with Alaska, Hawaii, and Maine). Norwich University, the oldest private military college in the U.S. calls Vermont home. Vermont has the least violent crimes out of all 50 states. Until 1996, Vermont was the only state without a Wal-Mart, and Montpelier remains the only state capital without a McDonald’s. Vermont-born U.S. President Calvin Coolidge is the only President born on the 4th of July.

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Blooming Now

 

“Autumn is a second spring when every leaf is a flower.”

— Albert Camus (1913 – 1960)
French philosopher and writer

 

 

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Virtues

“It is inaccurate to say I hate everything. I am strongly in favor of common sense, common honesty, and common decency. This makes me forever ineligible for public office.”

— H.L. Mencken (1880 – 1956)
American journalist and cultural critic

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War

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“When will our consciences grow so tender that we will act to prevent human misery rather than avenge it?”

— Eleanor Roosevelt (1884 – 1962)
American First Lady (1934 – 45)

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Enlightenment

“The words that enlighten the soul are more precious than jewels.”

— Hazrat Inayat Khan (1882 – 1927)
Indian professor of musicology

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You Matter to Me Day

Some of the National or World “Days” are fun… some are informative… some are downright silly. But “You Matter to Me Day” matters more than many. In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it can be easy to take our loved ones for granted. In a blink it can be too late to un-ring some stupid bell, perhaps one that never should have been rung in the first place. Remember to bond with loved ones daily. A simple “I love you” can help someone who is struggling to feel less taken for granted. Remind someone today that they matter… deeply. I love YOU!

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Bring Your Bible to School Day

Ahhh… religious freedom is not just for non-Christians. Remember that separation of church and state was introduced so that the government could no longer restrict voting to strictly white males of the royal governor’s same religion in that colony. It also means that the government cannot mandate prayer in school; nor can the govt forbid it… well, not legally anyway.

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Listen

(Photo by Raquel Raclette)

 

 

“Listen now to the gentle whispers of hope.”

— Charles D. Brodhead (1827 – 1913)
Grocery clerk & postmaster; served in PA House of Representatives

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To Your Health

 

“I have chosen to be happy because it is good for my health.” 

— Voltaire (Francois-Marie Arouet) (1694 – 1778)
French writer & philosopher

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“Destiny” Book 3 Now on Pre-Order

Woo-hoo! The Kindle version of Book 3 in my Destiny historical fiction trilogy just went into pre-order on Amazon.

Print and other digital formats will become available everywhere on the November 1 release day.

The project has been a genuine labor of love, with more than a few tears shed in the retelling of some aspects of my Armenian family’s saga. My deepest thanks to you all for being so supportive.

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Glory or Obscurity?

 

“Glory is fleeting, but obscurity is forever.”

— Napoleon Bonaparte (1769 – 1821)
French military commander & emperor

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Blessings!

Each year on September 30, National Love People Day is recognized. For me, it was particularly remarkable this year to spend that day attending the wedding ceremony of the daughter of very special friends. Every now and then, it’s warmingly wonderful to be reminded of the sheer bliss of a young couple crossing that threshold. Congratulations Elizabeth & Connor Keehn! And thanks for including us in your joyous celebration on the shores of Chesapeake Bay. May your lives sparkle with many blessings.

 

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September 30 is National Love People Day

“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”

— William Shakespeare (1564 – 1616)
English playwright, poet & actor
(from “All’s Well That Ends Well”)

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Write On!

“Some editors are failed writers, but so are most writers.”

— T.S. Eliot (1888-1965)
Nobel Prize-winning American poet, playwright, & editor

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Celebrate Drink a Beer Day!

“Beer, it’s the best damn drink in the world.”

– Jack Nicholson (1937 – )
American actor & filmmaker

 

“Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.”

– Benjamin Franklin (1706 – 1790)
Founding Father of the United States, inventor, publisher, political philosopher

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Have Fun!

Photo by Stefan Keller

 

This is National No Excuse Day!

So, go have fun and make no excuses for it!

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For the Birds

 

“Television has done much for psychiatry by spreading information about it, as well as contributing to the need for it.”

— Alfred Hitchcock (1899 – 1980)
English-American film director & producer

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Celebrate National Cooking Day

Favorite foods in the US range from Buffalo chicken wings and hot dogs to crab cakes, mac & cheese, popcorn, and nachos. If Americans are cooking at home, grilled cheese sandwiches, pizza, chicken, and apple pie rank highly. So, on National Cooking Day, what are you cooking?

We just had friends Bill and Angie Leffort give us some delightful fresh veggies from their North Carolina garden. I instantly knew I’d be stuffing the bell peppers, as that is a hubby favorite. I have several variations on this… some including such goodies as sausage and mushrooms, but I thought I’d share my Super Simple version, that anyone can whip up easily.

Super Simple Stuffed Roasted Peppers
2 large or 4 mini bell peppers (any color), halved vertically, seeds & pitch removed
Olive oil spray
1 med sweet onion, chopped½ lb ground beef, seasoned with favorite steak seasoning & mixed Italian herbs
½ c shredded muenster cheese
½ c shredded jack or mozzarella cheese
½-¾ c long grain & wild rice, cooked (or cauliflower rice, if preferred)
2-3 c tomato basil or marinara sauce

Place peppers, cut sides up in large Pyrex-type baking dish, spritz with olive oil, and roast at 425°F for 20 min. Meanwhile, in large microwave-safe bowl, cook onion on high for 2 minutes. Stir in seasoned beef and microwave 1 min; stir; microwave 1 more minute. Stir in half of both cheeses, all the rice, and 1 c sauce. Spoon into roasted pepper halves. Top with remaining cheeses; return to oven for 10-15 minutes and serve with warmed remaining sauce on the side.

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Celebrate Bluebird of Happiness Day

Bluebirds are associated with concepts of joy, happiness, and harmony. They are symbols of love, positivity, and renewal in many books, poems, songs, movies, and plays. The symbol dates back thousands of years to ancient Chinese mythology.

In the face of adversity, may the thought of a bluebird bring you hope. And perhaps a bit of humor. May the Bluebird of Happiness be with you all day… just not directly overhead.

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Intimacy

 

We all want intimacy. Sometimes we help ourselves, and sometimes we can be our own worst enemy. Through the ups and downs, the roller-coaster of relationships, I like to believe we can learn to recognize and improve both our weaknesses and our strengths. It’s a matter of choice. These relationship faux pas became a central focus in my 2017 book “The Bimbo Has Brains… and Other Freaky Facts.” Nobody is perfect, but we can all work to tip the scales in a more positive direction.

 

We gain intimacy:                                         We lose intimacy:
Open; Communicative                                      Closed; Evasive
Honest                                                                  Dishonest
Forgiving; Merciful                                            Unrelenting; Merciless
Attentive; Connected                                         Preoccupied; Disconnected
Accepting; Nonjudgmental                               Censuring; Critical
Compromising; Negotiating                             Inflexible; Heartless
Aware ; Connected; Sensitive                           Oblivious; Distant; Unfriendly
Appreciative; Grateful                                        Overcritical; Thoughtless
Gentle ; Tender; Kind                                         Forceful; Harsh; Abusive; Belittling
Humble; Unpretentious                                     Arrogant; Domineering
Compassionate; Civil; Considerate                 Unconcerned; Insulting; Inconsiderate
Vulnerable                                                            Guarded
Trustworthy                                                          Untrustworthy
Consistent; Committed                                      Inconsistent; Wishy-washy
Caring; Considerate                                            Unfeeling; Apathetic; Inconsiderate
Positive; Gracious; Good-tempered                 Negative; Disagreeable; Ill-tempered
Respectful; Supportive                                        Controlling; Belittling; Contradictory
Loving; Affectionate                                             Hateful; Indifferent
Empathetic; Understanding; Perceptive          Hostile; Narrow-minded
Charitable; Humane; Big-hearted                     Pitiless; Cold-hearted
Encouraging                                                            Oppressive

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Freedom of Speech

As Americans, we have the right to express our opinions, right or wrong, without fear of repercussions or cancelation… that was until certain politicians started mistakenly believing they are the intelligentsia, determined to drive the US into a USSR-style demise. SOS

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Today is the International Day of Peace

We humans have so much to learn.

“It is not enough to win a war; it is more important to organize the peace.”

— Aristotle (384 – 322 BC)
Greek philosopher

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‘Tis National Rum Punch Day.

I can think of no better person to toast a remembrance rum punch to than the King of Island Escapism… Jimmy Buffett.

“If we couldn’t laugh, we would all go insane.”

— Jimmy Buffett (1946 – 2023)
American musician, singer, & songwriter

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