Carry On… You CAN do it!

 

“It’s not the load that breaks you down; it’s the way you carry it.”

— Lena Horne (1917 – 2010)
American singer

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National Sense of Smell Day

 

Mmmmmm… Most of us have memories of certain aromas that make us smile, flash us back in time, trigger thoughts of a special person, or even stir our hunger. On the last Saturday of April each year, we recognize one of our special 5 senses.

 

 

This is a day to stop and smell the roses, as they say. Or breathe deeply to take in the essence of special spices.

 

 

Or recall coffee beans grinding at the front of the A&P. Sometimes, it may be easy to overlook or take our sense of smell for granted… until we catch a head cold!

 

Think for just a moment about smells that may be special to you. One of my favorites is that moment when my nose tells me that the lilacs have blossomed. I also love the clean, sweetness in the air after a spring rainfall.  Or the waft of a nearby campfire… or even freshly cut grass.

Of course, most of my super scents relate to food. (Oh, such a big surprise!) Very little tops the way the whole house smells when I am cooking bacon. But a hot loaf of bread coming out of the oven comes close. Or a pot of sensational soup on the stove or some other aromatic dish.

 

 

 

 

I am most grateful that I am blessed with many senses, but today I say a special “thank you” for the sense of smell.

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National Blueberry Pie Day

My mother made the best blueberry pies EVER! Her homemade piecrusts turned out light, flaky, and perfect every time. Her blueberries with those madly marvelous small-sized wild berries that we all dutifully picked each year and then froze for incredible edible enjoyment for the rest of the year. She never added too much sugar either, just enough to bring out the bountiful berry juices. If I want to slide into Memory Lane euphoria, I can simply remember savoring a scintillating slice of Mom’s blueberry pie, still warm from the oven and usually adorned with a scoop of vanilla ice cream.

I admit that I never developed the patience to deliver her consistently perfect piecrusts. And I no longer make the annual pilgrimage to pick the bountiful northern New England berries. Further, Mom is enjoying her well-earned retirement, although she regularly delights her friends and family with some of our favorite goodies.

On this National Blueberry Pie Day 2023, I will share with you my 1980 recipe for a pie that combines strawberries, blueberries, and whipped cream. See, we’re on the right track! Make it now or tuck this recipe away for a perfect summer’s day delight.

 

Super Simple Red, White & Blueberry Pie
(We now know this as a classic at Café Martin.)

4 lbs strawberries, washed & hulled (8 heaping cups total):
4 heaping cups sliced (these should be fresh berries), halved if small berries
4 heaping cups sliced berries (can be frozen), then mashed into 2 heaping cups mashed
16 small, attractive berries for garnishing (8 on each pie)
1/3 c sugar (or fave substitute, such as coconut sugar or monkfruit)
4 T cornstarch
2 T lemon, lime or orange juice (or combination)
¼ c cranberry juice
red food coloring, if desired
2 T butter
2 c fresh blueberries
2 prepared pie shells (store-bought shortbread cookie crust or regular baked & cooled)
Fresh (or canned) whipped cream, and plenty of it

In large saucepan, mix mashed strawberries with sugar, cornstarch & juices.  Cook over low heat, stirring until thickened & transparent.  Add a few drops of red food coloring, if desired.  Stir in butter, till melted.  Add the sliced/halved strawberries & the blueberries (saving some blueberries for garnish), stirring to coat with glaze.  Pour into shells, pressing to fill air pockets.  Chill thoroughly (at least 3-4 hours, or overnight).  At serving time, top with whipped cream; garnish with small, whole strawberries & the reserved blueberries.  Makes 2 pies.

KISS Note:  I have no idea what to do with leftovers. There have never been any.

Go for full-sized pies or mini tarts. Add currents, raspberries, blackberries, and even fresh mint leaves to your toppings, if desired. Or go extra Super Simple and serve the filling and topping over split hot biscuits as Red, White & Blueberry Shortcake!

Yes, this is one of many recipes in one of the first cookbooks I first published in 2007. The paperback and digital editions of “Fifty Years of Fabulous Family Favorites: Starters, Sippers, & Sweets” remains popular on Amazon and other sites.

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National Poem in Your Pocket Day

The Academy of American Poets started this tradition in 2008 to recognize poetry and American poets. Carry a favorite poem in your pocket and pull it out and read it on this day. You can read it aloud outside your own front door, to co-workers, or in some public place, regardless of how unexpected it might be!

Perhaps you’ll choose something serious or emotionally moving. I like those that ring with thought or philosophy or downright silly humor. Let me share 3 little gems with you on National Poem in Your Pocket Day. They all come from Americans born in the 1800’s… Humor and insight are indeed ageless.

“My candle burns at both ends;
It will not last the night;
But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends—
It gives a lovely light!”

Edna St. Vincent Millay (1892 – 1950)
American poet

 

 

“I’m nobody! Who are you?
Are you nobody, too?
Then there’s a pair of us – don’t tell!
They’d banish us, you know.

How dreary to be somebody!
How public, like a frog
To tell your name the livelong day
To an admiring bog!”

Emily Dickinson (1830 – 1886)
American Poet

“I never saw a Purple Cow,
I never hope to see one,
But I can tell you, anyhow,
I’d rather see than be one!”

— Gelett Burgess (1866 – 1951)
American artist

#PocketPoem

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National Pretzel Day

“Twist like a pretzel without losing your salt.”

 

That was the theme of a popular “talk” I used to deliver as a business and motivational speaker in past decades. And I still see it as a worthy skill to this day.

We typically think of pretzels as a yummy comfort food snack. I’ve replaced the crunchy ones out of a bag with big, freshly baked varieties.

Wendy Tirollo and the giant pretzel

 

 

I recall experiencing my first jumbo size at a sports bar in Las Vegas… in the picture, that’s our friend, Wendy Tirollo sporting the pretzel bracelets. We still love the monster varieties and the sticks, too… crispy outside, while soft and tender inside.

 

 

 

 

We still enjoy the big varietals at the Iron Key Brewery and the to-die-for sticks at the Green River Tavern… both served with beer cheese and zesty mustard on the side for dipping.

 

 

 

Top them with anything you like, from nuts and seeds to everything bagel seasoning… For me, please make it plenty of good, coarse kosher salt! So, twist like a pretzel when you must, but never lose your salt!

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National Hug a Plumber Day

 

 

Bob & Glenna Burnham at their wedding reception, June 24, 1950

 

 

My Dad is the plumber I celebrate today. Though he is no longer with us on this planet, I send Bob Burnham my hug in heaven.

 

 

 

 

Dad in his greenhouse 1987

 

He and Mom got married in Goffstown, NH on June 24, 1950. In all, they enjoyed 70 years together, and everyone who knew him benefited. All my friends were taught to call him Uncle Bob, whether or not they were my cousins. Dad was also a great gardener, clever cook, and fabulous father.

 

At our wedding, September 8, 2001

 

 

I was blessed with this gentle man in my life. He taught me so very much about hard work, caring for others, and loving life. Thank you, Dad, forever and ever!

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Dig In!!!

“Your diamonds are not in far distant mountains or in yonder seas; they are in your own backyard if you but dig for them.”

— Russell H. Conwell (1843-1925)
American lawyer, educator, writer, and minister

For me, this quote is a reminder to count our blessings. We so easily take what’s most precious for granted as we get wrapped up in daily stresses and stressors. So, let’s dig a little and enjoy the gems.

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National Picnic Day

Each year on April 23, we celebrate National Picnic Day. Take some time to spread out a blanket anywhere and enjoy peace and tranquility or perhaps just listen to Nature or watch waves lapping a shore or catch an outdoor concert. Share the time with special people or a special person or a pet or simply by yourself.

Take some favorite foods to nibble, of course. Because food is central to the picnic experience, here are 3 Super Simple considerations for you.

Super Simple Caprese Sandwiches or Kebabs
Slices of fresh, ripe tomatoes (or cherry tomatoes for kebabs)
Slices of mozzarella cheese (or mini balls for kebabs)
Fresh basil leaves
Balsamic glaze or a favorite pesto
Bread or rolls (or mini bamboo or wooden skewers for kebabs)

Layer the goodies on your bread (closed or open-faced) or thread on your skewers and drizzle.

Super Simple Peach Salsa
¼ c chopped red or sweet onion, microwaved & chilled
2 c diced peaches or nectarines
2 diced Roma tomatoes
½ c diced, seeded cucumber
½ jalapeño, seeded & finely diced
2 T chopped fresh cilantro
Juice of 1 large or 2 small limes
½ tsp salt & ¼ tsp pepper

Combine and chill for 2-24 hours. Serve with favorite tortilla chips.

KISS Tip: You can make this extra Super Simple by simply stirring peaches into a favorite bottled salsa!

Super Simple Sparkling Lemonade
1 lb hulled & sliced fresh, ripe strawberries
¼ – 1/3 c granulated monkfruit or sugar
½ c water
¾ c freshly squeezed lemon juice (or lime, if preferred)
4 c Prosecco or sparkling water (for a family-friendly version)

Sprinkle berries with sweetener in a bowl; stir twice as it rests for 1 hour. Add the half cup water & process till smooth with an immersion blender (or mash thoroughly). Strain through a fine sieve or cheesecloth to remove seeds. Stir in lemon juice and refrigerate. To serve, divide mixture among 4 glasses atop ice cubes; then pour the bubbly over the top. If desired, you can garnish with a lemon wedge, fresh berry, or mint sprig.

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Judgment

 

“We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done.”

— Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

(1807 – 1882)
American poet

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High Five!

We’re taking a look back today at National High Five Day, which is always the third Thursday of April.  Officially, that was yesterday.

We recognize the gesture of greeting, happiness, celebration, or congratulations. It’s easy to cheer someone else on, but we often struggle to support ourselves with the same confidence. So, why not start today and each day celebrating yourself with a high five!?!

According to the Oxford Dictionary, the “high five” has been around since the early 1980s and is related to the slang expressions “give me five”, “slap me five”, “slip me five”, and “give me some skin”. It is the recognizable request for some form of handshake with the “five” referring to the digits of the hand.

Like the “fist bump,” such gestures convey respect, approval, and companionship. And, yes, such a fun “trick” to teach to our favorite furry friends!

 

Origins are up for debate. Most people think it likely started in baseball or basketball. Some specifically recall Glenn Burk and Dusty Baker of the Los Angeles Dodgers sharing a high five on October 2, 1977, following an important home run.  Others credit the Louisville Cardinals basketball players Wiley Brown and Derek Smith during the 1978-89 season. The usual “low five”, a popular symbol of support since around 1920 in the Black community, was enthusiastically delivered up high for emphasis.

In truth, there are possibilities that go back much further. A high five-style raised hand slap is depicted as far back as 3200 BC in ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics.

So, be it yesterday, today, or tomorrow, this is a good day for a high five. The power of support and solidarity is always welcome. So, here’s a high five to y’all!

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Trust

 

“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”

— William Shakespeare 1564 – 1616)
English playwright

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Happiness

 

“There is no path to happiness; happiness is the path.”

— Siddhartha Gautama (the Buddha)
(Born 564 BC)
Founder of Buddhism

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More on Ellis Island

Yesterday I mentioned that Ellis Island had a dark past. Before becoming a major immigration center, it was used for hanging condemned prisoners, pirates, criminals, and mutinous sailors from the early 1800s through 1839. It then served as a Navy munitions depot before being repurposed as a federal immigration station.

Photo courtesy of the New York Public Library

In truth, Ellis Island was not an immigrant’s first stop in America. Waters around the island are not deep enough for the steamships, so ships initially docked and unloaded all passengers in Manhattan. U.S. citizens and all other first- and second-class passengers entered the country there. However, all passengers in steerage were then herded onto ferries and shuttled to Ellis Island for processing.

Photo courtesy of the New York Public Library

Upon arrival at Ellis Island, immigrants were ushered into the Great Hall to undergo a series of examinations for both physical and mental fitness. This is where some immigrants’ tags were marked with chalk and taken for additional screening, hospitalization, or deportation. Though America heralded its open immigration policy, anyone could be denied admittance if it seemed likely that person could become a financial burden for the government.

Despite folklore to the contrary, foreign-sounding names were not shortened nor “Americanized” at Ellis Island. Immigration officers merely checked names against each ship’s own passenger manifest. Name changes typically happened before or while boarding ships in foreign ports.

There are many more “little known facts” regarding immigration to America. For example, women could not leave Ellis Island with a man not related to them. Other automatic detainees included stowaways, alien seamen, anarchists, Bolsheviks, criminals, and anyone suspected of being “immoral.”

In 1790, US naturalization required 2 years of residency and “good moral character. Plus, the applicant had to be a “free white person.” In 1795 the residency period was extended to 5 years and then to 14 years in 1798, but back to 5 years in 1802. In 1870 the right of citizenship was extended to those of African origin.

Photo courtesy of the New York Public Library

To be admitted during the nation’s open immigration years, arriving people had to be seen as healthy and able to enter the workforce. Any sign of declining physical or mental health could get someone deported. More than 60 diseases and disabilities could disqualify a person from entry. Sick children were separated from their parents. Wheezing, coughing, shuffling, or even limping could get a person hospitalized, rather than admitted to the U.S. In truth, tens of thousands of immigrants were hospitalized on the south side of the island, where they were held for treatment and possible deportation. More than 3,500 immigrants died in this hospital.

When the Civil War began in 1861, the demand for workers increased. Pro-immigration Republicans and President Abraham Lincoln advocated for better immigration policies. Progressives championed literacy tests and “various other eugenics-inspired racial and ethnic exclusions of Jews, Asians, and Africans.” By 1875 immigration restrictions included bans on criminals, people with contagious diseases, polygamists, anarchists, beggars, and importers of prostitutes. Ellis Island became more famous for deportations than immigration. In the early 1900s, many Progressives argued that immigrants “impeded the achievement of an ideal society, committed crimes, and abused welfare.”

U.S. immigration sentiment had grown quite negative by April 1917. People sought restrictions, fearing that many of the newcomers were racially inferior. Warnings included the danger of our “melting pot” philosophy bringing an impoverished, criminal, radical, and diseased horde.

In 1921, President Warren G. Harding signed into law the first Quota Act, ending America’s open-door policy. The new law set monthly quotas and limited admission of each nationality to 3% of its representation in the 1910 U.S. Census. By 1925, the government shifted the inspection process from American ports to U.S. Consulates abroad. Ellis Island then operated primarily as a detention and “deportation point for undesirable immigrants.”

Wear and tear took its toll on the buildings at Ellis Island. Eventually, restorations were ordered, and the facilities opened for tourist visitors during our nation’s Bicentennial in 1976.  Some 3 million visitors tour Ellis Island annually. People can access Ellis on the same ferry as the one to the Statue of Liberty. While on the island, many look up ancestors who first arrived there.

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National Ellis Island Family History Day

If you love ancestry, checking out Ellis Island is a riotous “rabbit hole” to investigate. I had family enter the U.S. there, as did the nearly 40% of American citizens who can trace at least 1 ancestor to Ellis Island. 40%! That’s HUGE! It all started in 1892.

 

Photo courtesy of the New York Public Library

Three unaccompanied minors, 17-year-old Annie Moore, a teenager from County Cork in Ireland, and her 11 and 7-year-old brothers, were the first immigrants to come through Ellis Island on January 1, 1892. They were among the 124 passengers aboard the steamship Nevada. On one single day in 1907, more than 11,000 immigrants arrived. Ellis Island, named for Samuel Ellis, its last private owner, served as the port of entry for more than 12 million immigrants, until the site was permanently closed in November 1954.

Ellis Island lies between NY and NJ… not far from the Statue of Liberty. Originally 3.3 acres in size, it was intentionally expanded to 27.5 acres to accommodate more people and buildings. Ellis Island sits in the waters of New Jersey, but an 1834 agreement stated the island belonged to New York. A 1998 agreement stated that the original 3.3 acres of land belonged to NY, but the additional 24.2 acres belonged to NJ.

Regardless of which state owned the island, all entrants approaching the United States were stopped for a quarantine checkpoint off Staten Island before their ships were even permitted to enter New York Harbor. Doctors check for dangerous contagious diseases, such as smallpox, yellow fever, plague, cholera, and leprosy. Plus, travelers in steerage and their belongings were sprayed down with disinfectant. After inspection, immigration officers then boarded the ship and began clearing U.S. citizens and all other 1st and 2nd class passengers. Most travelers, those in steerage, were given manifest tags to present to U.S. Customs officers to identify passengers. No passports or visas were required, nor were any papers needed.

Photo courtesy of the New York Public Library

80% of those arriving spent 3-5 hours getting through the Ellis Island process and were then admitted. However, the process for the other 20% could take a couple of days, weeks, months, or in rare cases, a couple of years. While waiting, free meals were served. This usually included beef stew, potatoes, bread, bananas, and ice cream. Dormitories were provided for longer waiting periods. About 2% or less than half a million people were denied entry and sent back to their ports of origin.

Arriving in 1916 as a small child, along with an older brother and his mother, my Armenian grandfather and his family were nearly among those deported. That fact is visible today upon examining the records at Ellis Island. Language challenges had made it difficult to help officials understand that his mother had been badly injured by Ottoman Turk soldiers, rather than being ill with some dreaded disease. Though it took a lot of time and tears, they finally were able to find someone who could help communicate, and they were able to join relatives waiting on the shore, rather than being sent back to Europe.

I was most pleased to share their store in the first two books of my Destiny historical fiction trilogy. “Destiny of Dreams” tells a blunt and difficult account of my ancestors’ struggles in Armenia, and “Destiny of Determination” follows the survivors arriving at Ellis Island and building a new life in America. (The concluding book in the trilogy is due for release this Fall.)

 

Tomorrow, I will continue sharing about Ellis Island. We’ll look at why it earned the “Island of Tears” nickname and how it grew out of its dark past into a popular tourist destination.

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National Eggs Benedict Day

Chef Charles Ranhofer is credited with creating Eggs a la Benedict at Delmonico’s Restaurant in Lower Manhattan. He came up with the combination in the 1860s when a regular diner, Mrs. LeGrand Benedict, sought something new on the menu. The dish began being served regularly at Delmonico’s, and Chef Ranhofer finally published the recipe in his 1894 cookbook.

Some attribute the recipe to a Lemuel Benedict. Legend says that in 1894, in a somewhat drunken state, he meandered into New York’s Waldorf Hotel and ordered bacon and a poached egg on toast. The maître d’, one Oscar Tschirsky thought the combination would make a tasty addition to the menu, but he switched the bacon to Canadian bacon and the toast to an English muffin.

Hmmmm… then again, it should be noted that Tschirsky had previously worked at Delmonico’s Restaurant, right around the same time that Eggs a la Benedict started becoming popular. Okay, so he perhaps “pinched” it.

Regardless, Eggs Benedict is easy to make at home. Jazz it up or keep it Super Simple. You choose.

First, use a packet mix or make your own Hollandaise sauce. An immersion blender makes it in a snap!

Hollandaise Sauce
¾ c butter
3 lg egg yolks
3 T water
2 T fresh lemon juice
Kosher salt & pepper
Melt the butter in a microwave or small pan till bubbly. Meanwhile, place eggs, water, & lemon juice in a bowl and start blending with the immersion blender. Then, very slowly drizzle the butter into the bowl, still constantly blending. Season with salt & pepper and cover with plastic wrap while preparing the other ingredients.

To poach your eggs, break each egg, one at a time, into a small bowl, such as a custard cup. If the yolk breaks, set it aside for some other use. Slide up to 4 eggs at a time into a pot of simmering hot water. Cook just 3-4 minutes so they will set but still have runny yolks. Gently remove them to a paper towel-lined plate to drain.

Assemble each serving of Eggs Benedict by placing both halves of a toasted English muffin, cut sides up, on a plate. Top each with a slice or two of seared Canadian bacon, followed by a poached egg and a large spoonful of Hollandaise sauce. Garnish each with a sprinkle of finely sliced chives or other chopped fresh herbs and serve with some crispy home-fried potatoes and some fresh fruit.

Then you can start to imagine the possibilities! You could kick this up to a lunch entrée by replacing the English muffins with a baked potato. (Remove the hot pulp, mash, add butter, salt & pepper; then return the seasoned pulp to the potato skin and top with the bacon, egg, and Hollandaise sauce.

Consider supplementing or varying the protein. Try Florentine Eggs Benedict by adding sauteed spinach and sliced mushrooms. Go for Eggs Benedict Royale by replacing the Canadian bacon with smoked salmon. Replace the Canadian bacon with crispy strips of traditional bacon and/or sauteed, sliced sweet onions. Or replace the bacon with sliced turkey and serve over a pan-fried cake of leftover stuffing. Another fun twist is to use thinly sliced ham and sliced fresh avocado.

Of course, there’s my own personal favorite. Go for Super Simple Neptune Eggs Benedict by replacing the Canadian bacon with lobster or king crab legs, lightly sautéed in salty butter. This is perfect with thin asparagus spears or baby spinach leaves between the seafood and a toasted, buttered English muffin.

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Take a Wild Guess Day

Celebrate the silly, the scintillating, the serious thinker in all of us! We spend a great deal of time in our lives trying to seek exactly the correct answers. Whether we are guessing how many dandelions are budding in a meadow, attempting to count jellybeans in a huge jar, or estimating our taxes, we all have inklings and premonitions.

(Okay, Uncle Sam expects far more than a good guess.)

But today is Take a Wild Guess Day, so follow your gut feel. Hail to the hunches. Glorify the guesses… even the wild ones! We may be way off base or hit the bull’s eye!

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National Look Up to the Sky Day

If the weather cooperates, great! If not, great! On National Look Up to the Sky Day, let’s take a moment to look up and appreciate our world from a different perspective. Look outward… no selfies!

 

Brilliant blue skies… stunning cloud formations… the gray of dense rain. Catch a blazing sunrise or sunset… or remember one that was particularly spectacular. Do some star gazing. Listen to a “sky”-themed song or two… “Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds,” “Spirit in the Sky,” or “Sky Pilot.”

Or simply watch some birds flitting and flying about in your/their air space. Whatever you may do or wherever you may be, enjoy and appreciate the beauty above us.

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Enthusiasm

Image by Gerd Altmann

“You can do anything if you have enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is the yeast that makes your hopes rise to the stars. Enthusiasm is the spark in your eye, the swing in your gait, the grip of your hand, the irresistible surge of your will and your energy to execute your ideas. Enthusiasts are fighters; they have fortitude; they have staying qualities. Enthusiasm is at the bottom of all progress! With it, there is accomplishment. Without it, there are only alibis.”

— Henry Ford (1863 – 1947)
American industrialist; founder of Ford Motor Company

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National Colorado Day

Photo by Peter Pryharski

April 12th is the date in 1876 that the Centennial State became the 38th to join the Union. The first of the Four Corner States, Colorado is noted for the beauty of the Rocky Mountains, and boasts 53 mountain peaks reaching at least 14,000 feet tall.

 

Photo by Stephane Legrand

 

 

 

For those who love sand dunes, Colorado also boasts America’s tallest dunes and the best sandboarding in the nation.

 

 

 

 

As a devoted food fan, I must also note that the creation of the root beer float (aka “Black Cow”) is credited to Frank Wisner of Cripple Creek, Colorado. He created the “Black Cow” in a mining camp in August 1893.

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Possibilities

Image by Nato Pereira

 

“In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.”

— Janos Arany (1817 – 1882)
Hungarian poet

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National Hug Your Dog Day

Whether you own or owned a dog or were ever owned by a dog… or more than one, celebrate this day by hugging your dog… or somebody’s dog… or the memory of your dog. Dogs make us better people. (If only all dogs could say the same about all people.)

I simply know that when you hug your dog, you get love back more than tenfold. They love us unconditionally. We can learn a lot from a dog.

 

For example, let’s say that your dog misbehaved. Well, as Bandit always taught his four-footed, furry friends, put on a happy face. He knew it was very difficult for us to scold them when they look soooo happy. He also taught pooch pals to tilt their heads when we talk to them, because we really like it when it appears that they are listening so very intently to us. Hmmm… how to stay out of trouble was just one of the sassy skills that he shared.

Our Bandit taught us soooo much. I know, I know. He tried to hide all his information. We got a sneak peak at his book… “A Dangerous Book for Dogs… Train Your Human.” He did not want it to fall into human hands, lest we learn all those clever canine secrets. Regardless, he shared. And we learned. And smiled. Whether you grab a copy in paperback, digital format, or audiobook, hug your dog today and every day.

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Happy Easter!

 

“Blessed are those who have not seen and have yet believed.”

–John 20:29
The Bible

 

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Ahhhhhhhhh…. Freshening Up!

Photo by Nathan McBride

“A fresh mind keeps the body fresh. Take in the ideas of the day, drain off those of yesterday. As to the morrow, time enough to consider it when it becomes today.”

— Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton (1803-1873)
English statesman, poet

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National No Housework Day!

 

Okay…. Enough said. I shall take this day off! The housework can wait.

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Let Your Inner Artist Out!

 

“Every artist was first an amateur.”

— Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 – 1882)
American essayist & philosopher

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Let Freedom Ring!

“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

— Dr. Seuss (pen name of Theodor Seuss Geisel) (1904 – 1991)
American children’s author & cartoonist

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National Burrito Day

Celebrate National Burrito Day by combining your favorites and wrapping them in a flour tortilla.

The first photo is hubby Ron back in 2012, enjoying his favorite burrito at a Columbus, North Carolina restaurant, Cocula’s. It’s their gi-hugic Burrito Tejano, filled with grilled steak, chicken, shrimp, beans, bell pepper, grilled onions, zucchini, rice, lettuce, sour cream, and pico de gallo and topped with Monterey Jack cheese with red salsa on the side. Yes, it is THAT big!

 

Here’s a Super Simple way to make 4 Burritos.
4 (10”) flour tortillas
1½ c favorite cooked rice
1 ½ c refried beans (or rinsed & drained black beans)
1 – 1½ lb steak, grilled, sliced & seasoned with your favorite taco seasoning
1½ c shredded Monterey Jack or pepperjack cheese
1½ c grilled, sliced sweet onion
¾ c each: grilled corn kernels, diced tomato, and diced avocado
½ c fresh cilantro leaves
Topping: 1 c additional shredded cheese

Layer ingredients in the order listed in a row down the middle of each tortilla. Fold in opposite sides of tortilla and place seam-sides down in an olive oil-sprayed 9×13” baking dish. Cover with foil & bake 20 min at 350°F. Remove foil and sprinkle the extra cheese down the length of each burrito; bake, uncovered, for 5 more minutes. Serve with sour cream and salsa on the side.

Have fun with burritos. Make them with leftover rotisserie chicken, or ground beef & beans, or grilled veggies.  Try a breakfast burrito with scrambled eggs, chorizo or sage sausage, and tater tots or rice, if you prefer).
Skip the tortillas, and make burrito bowls with your favorite ingredients. Or think outside the box and make something like a crab, shrimp, and mushroom burrito or a seasoned pork and grilled pineapple burrito. (Seriously yummy.)

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Spring into Happiness!

For me, magic bursts into view each Spring! The earliest flowers have now given way to dogwoods and rhododendron.

 

I love seeing the new pink, white, and red colors as I drive up or down our driveway.

 

 

 

And the purple iris around the house makes me smile.

 

 

 

Sir Ronald and I just started a mini orchard, too.  Three peach trees, three plum trees, three pear trees, and three apple trees. It’s safe to say we’ve truly put down some roots!

 

I cuddled this little chick in the palm of my hand for almost an hour. I felt so bad when an early flight ended with a crash into my office window. Finally, the little one regained composure and did a short, safe flight to this deck chair for a time, before rejoining the others in a nearby dogwood tree. I do like happy endings.

 

 

I hope Spring brings you delightful beginnings and happy endings, too!

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Originality

When people have praised or celebrated my books, I have often quipped that I doubt I have ever had an original thought! That is not just wit or modesty. I mean it. Who do I think I am to imagine that I ever came up with some thought that no one else in history has ever thought long before me? I know better. And then I saw this delightful quote from Voltaire… the nom de plume for Francois-Marie Arouet.

“Originality is nothing but judicious imitation.”

— M. de Voltaire (Francois-Marie Arouet) (1694 – 1778)
French Enlightenment writer, noted for criticism of slavery and advocacy of freedom of speech and religion

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Great Combo!

National Grilled Cheese Month meets National Sourdough Bread Day. This is no April Fools Day joke. National Grilled Cheese Month meets National Sourdough Bread Day! Who doesn’t love a great grilled cheese sandwich?!?

Enjoy it plain. Add a fried egg and a slice of fresh tomato for breakfast. Layer cheese with ham and thinly sliced veggies for lunch (or add some sliced apples, too). Add a sprinkle of crisply fried onions and bacon to a grilled cheese anytime.

The one absolute requirement is good melting cheese. Some firm or semi-firm cheeses simply do not melt naturally, which makes them tough to use in a great grilled cheese sandwich. Be careful with cheeses such as queso fresco, feta, or even semi-soft goat cheese. When using Swiss or Cheddar cheeses, I like to also add layers of Muenster (my go-to fave), Brie, Monterey Jack, or Pepperjack. These boost the creamy meltiness. (Okay… use American if you absolutely must, but do so with awareness that it is actually a processed food that contains cheese.)

For bread use anything from pita pockets or burger buns to hearty rye, but being National Sourdough Bread Day, let’s opt for one of those loaves straight out of your favorite deli. Because sourdough is firm and hearty, and we want our cheese to melt nicely, cut slices to just ½”. Spread mayonnaise on one side of both slices and layer your cheese and other ingredients on one slice before topping with the other, keeping the mayo sides inside. Then spread the outside of the top slice with mayonnaise before placing, mayo side down in melted butter over low heat. (Okay, I will admit to you that I sometimes replace the melted butter with my bacon renderings! Wowza!!!)

After the sandwich is in the pan, spread the slice that is now on top with mayonnaise and cover the pan for 2-3 minutes. (If you typically spread butter on the outside of your sandwich, give mayonnaise a try. You may never go back! Low heat is important, as the mayo gives a delightful crunchiness to the sandwich, but it can brown more quickly than butter.) Covering your sandwich initially captures the heat and lets the cheese melting process happen more easily.

Remove the lid and use a large spatula to turn your sandwich over. Leave the pan uncovered for another 2-3 minutes to turn the bottle crispy golden before serving to your happy taste buds. Here’s a Super Simple tip: Serve with a hearty bowl of fresh tomato basil soup for dipping or sandwich at lunch… or cut your sandwiches into 3 strips and serve with the soup with beverages for Happy Hour.

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No Turtle on the Half Shell, Please

We are digging up deliciousness today as we celebrate both National Clams on the Half-Shell Day AND National Oysters on the Half-Shell Day. Both are recognized on March 31st each year.

 

 

When it comes to oysters and clams on the half-shell, people either crave them or avoid them. The texture along puts some folks “off.” Many people prefer one over the other. Oysters tend to be larger with a stronger, brinier flavor. (Except for Pacific oysters, which are small, sweet, and less briny.)

 

Tidbits to ponder… Both clams and oysters are bivalve mollusks with hinged shells. They have no heads, biting mouth parts, nor arms or legs. Clams have a lifespan of about a dozen years, although some can live up to 40 years. The lifespan of an oyster is over 100 years. Oysters tend to be larger, reaching a 3-4” diameter for a 3-year-old oyster. Clams grow more slowly, and just reach the 2” legal harvesting size after 3 years. 78% of all the wild oysters harvested are Atlantic oysters, with 66% hailing from the U.S.

According to Food & Wine magazine, the most popular raw oyster varieties include Blue Point, Kumamoto, Pacific, Olympia, Well Fleet, and Belon. Clam fans may choose Quahogs, topneck, littleneck or cherrystone clams for their meaty, salty yumminess.

 

Clams and oysters on the half shell can be served raw, steamed, grilled, smoked, or stuffed. Raw is the way most people think of when it comes to a “half-shell” serving. Oysters are traditionally served with lemon wedges, 1 or 2 drops of hot sauce, and a splash of mignonette. (Mignonette is a fancy name for a simple combination of vinegar with finely minced shallots and black pepper.) Clams also get some fresh lemon wedges, along with tabasco and cocktail sauce. Mignonette can be served with either. However you choose to garnish, place the mollusks atop crushed ice for serving. Some warm French or garlic bread on the side is also great.

 

Not a fan of raw clams or oysters? Me neither. For me, I’ll take them baked, roasted, or grilled any day. A “Casino” approach means baking them with bacon and toasty breadcrumbs. This is a favorite method of mine for clams. Any baked or “Rockefeller” style for oysters also suits my palette. But today is the day to enjoy clams and oysters on the half shell… any way YOU like!

 

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Let Me “Help” You???

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Ah… the Gripes of Cath. We all seem to know someone who steps up to help on a project without being asked. Wonderful!

However, despite the positive value they may bring to the project, if their assistance seems to come with strings attached, beware. After helping, they openly announce what “this will cost you.” Or that they “will never let you forget it,” (or anyone else either, for that matter.) Etc. They may even make it clear that you could never have done it right without them. (Oh, joy!)

This behavior is called all sorts of things…. Manipulative, self-serving, and controlling are just a few of the words that come to mind. I have often found that I learn the most about behavior and actions by observing what NOT to do and taking great care to not emulate the choices that I observed as negative.

I believe we do best when we step up to help someone else with no thoughts, never mind expectations of what they can do for us in return. This reflects friendship, kindness, and respect.

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It’s Magic!

“Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes… just be an illusion.”

— Javan
4th son of Noah’s son, Japheth

 

Pull back the curtain, Dorothy! This is National Smoke and Mirrors Day.

Appreciating the art and skill of a good prestidigitator, and as a professional magician’s assistant, I know how to blow smoke and tilt mirrors. I mean, “smoke and mirrors” is always my answer when folks ask how any particular illusion is done. Bravo to the magicians and masters at “sleight of hand!”

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National Something on a Stick Day

Now, this could mean anything from a wrapper on a stick of gum to some tree bark. For me, I naturally think food! From breakfast to snacks to dinner, all sorts of yumminess can be yours on a stick.

 

Naturally, you may choose the traditional lamb or beef or chicken kebabs… or Buffalo chicken tenders or teriyaki beef or Margarita chicken or a corn dog or mini meatballs with marina sauce or grilled shrimp or scallops. WAIT! Wrap those shrimp or scallops in bacon before grilling them on a stick. Or wrap a fresh chunk of pineapple or a chicken liver (if you must) or a water chestnut… in bacon.

But we can start at breakfast…. Tried grilled French toast chunks on skewers… with bacon or fruit. Or churros and chocolate. Or melon balls. Or strawberries……… and anything. Or mini cupcakes. Or fried chicken and waffles. Or any grilled fruit (mmmmm… both pineapple and peaches rock the block).

 

Get basic… A popsicle or ice cream bar are super hits on sticks. Or choose a candied apple! You could always satisfy a sweet tooth urge with chocolate-dipped marshmallows on a stick. (I’m sorry. Had we lost sight of this being “something on a stick” day?

Okay. It’s Tapas Time…. Try Caprese sticks with cherry tomatoes, mozzarella balls, and basil leaves. Or a skewer of Buffalo cauliflower. Or apple and cheddar cheese chunks. Or feta, mint and watermelon chunks. Or prosciutto-wrapped breadsticks!!!!! WHAT!!???!

Let’s wrap up with the basics.  Crispy-edged, soft-centered pretzel bites (with beer cheese on the side for dipping) and for the dessert chaser? Serve up a skewer or two of fresh strawberries and brownie chunks. Well, yeah!

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Ability

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“It is a great ability to be able to conceal one’s ability.”

— Cicero (106 BC – 43 BC)
Roman statesman & philosopher

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Bonfire Magic!

Very little can top an old-fashioned bonfire for a casual celebration with friends! We’ve hosted a few doozies over the years, and last night’s ranks among the sweetest. Gorgeous weather with after-dark temperatures hanging in the low 70s.

A massive pile of brush and stumps, some of which have been aging for up to 2 years. A fantastic flurry of friends to celebrate it right.

Food. Fun. Frivolity! Schweeeeet! And a new tray of Smores! Thanks to all for joining the revelry!

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Eyes and Ears Wide Open

 

“A people that values its privileges above its principles soon loses both.”

— Dwight Eisenhower 1890 – 1969)
American military officer & 34th President of the United States

I find myself continually stunned by the confidence and innocence of many (thankfully, not all) American young adults. Very often I hear them loudly and laughingly express disdain for the very things that built the foundation on which they have built their lifestyles and enjoy everything that freedom enables them to have and do. Their laughter at those whose values and thoughts differ from their own rings with condescension and borders on haughty. And yet I know these same young people would never want to think of themselves as being close-minded, intolerant, or unaware.

My wish is that they learn sooner rather than later to understand the dangers of taking America’s unique freedoms for granted. Interestingly, nations that have lost freedom, struggle long and mightily. Yet, they never regain true freedom. So, my prayer is for people to learn difficult truths without having to live them.

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National Cocktail Day

Sooo many cocktail possibilities exist. Plus, you can create your own. Not being a current fan of hard liquor, I do recall some truly fun cocktails. A piña colada on a hot summer day or a frozen strawberry daiquiri or a perfect, icy margarita still come to mind as favorites.

 

Personally, I opt for the original Harry’s Bar Bellini. In Venice, Italy, they serve it up in what we might think of as a juice glass. But you can serve it up in stemware and garnish as desired.

 

 

Simple and basic, the Bellini starts with white peach puree and a cold, bubbly prosecco wine. (Okay, some places take a Super Shortcut “clear” approach and simply pour champagne into a glass with some peach liquor.) What many folks do not realize is that it also includes a touch of raspberry puree, which balances out the potential uneven sweetness of various peaches, while adding a slightly rosy glow to the beverage. While the main two ingredients are easy to find, the same cannot be said for raspberry puree. So, you can push your ripe berries through a fine sieve orrrrr try my Super Simple fix. All I ever do now is stir a little raspberry sorbet into the peach puree. Make a family friendly Bellini by replacing prosecco with ginger ale. Seriously Super Simple and delightfully delish!

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This is National Chips and Dip Day!

Sorry, but I did not realize this was not celebrated every day. Chips and Dips anchor nearly every Happy Hour we serve. Some are fancy. Some are sassy. Some are colorful. Some are hot. Some are cold. Some are cheesy. Etc., etc., etc.

 

The all-time champion is the old-fashioned California Dip. Yup… 1 container of sour cream and 1 envelope of dry onion soup mix.  Serve it up with homemade chips, salty Ruffles, or a kettle-fried varietal. Many have munched on my onion dip, insisting that I must add some secret ingredients, as it tastes so different from when they’ve made it at home.

 

No secret ingredient, but I always share a not-so-secret technique. Stir your soup mix into the sour cream and scoop it all back into the sour cream container, but do this 24 hours ahead of serving time. This allows the moisture in the sour cream to fully rehydrate the dried onions, while also letting the flavors marry beautifully. Expect no leftovers. Yummy!

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Let Love Live Large!

 

 

“It didn’t matter how big our house was; it mattered that there was love in it.”

— Peter Buffett (1958 –  )
American musician

 

 

Sir Ronald and I feel mightily blessed. We have loving family and friends. Our home is often… okay, usually… overflowing with our tribe… our ohana… our dearest friends and family. Sometimes we can go spend time with them, and sometimes they come spend time with us.

 

 

This winter, during a time when we were not traveling, we have enjoyed an especially love-filled home. From both near and far, loved ones have filled our home.

 

We just enjoyed an especially fulfilling span of days. Family, including the grandchildren, kept us flying!!! Adam and Caiti also introduced us to our newest granddaughter.

 

 

 

 

Love and laughter reign supreme! May your days feel equally blessed!

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