“Everything you can imagine is real.”
— Pablo Picasso (1881 – 1973)
Spanish painter & sculptor
(Photo by Judith Girard-Marczak)
“Everything you can imagine is real.”
— Pablo Picasso (1881 – 1973)
Spanish painter & sculptor
(Photo by Judith Girard-Marczak)
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.”
— Ambrose Hollingworth Redmoon (born James Neil Hollingworth) (1933 – 1996); American beatnik, hippie, and band manager
(Image by Cristi Ursea)
Yesterday was the International Day of Awesomeness, but it inspired me to think that we may be well-served by a Day of Awareness. With so much naysaying, criticism, and divisiveness fluttering about, I present one of my lines from my 2019 book.
“I am calling for uncommon decency.
Respect that comes from awareness.”
― Cathy Burnham Martin, author
Encouragement: How to Be and Find the Best, 2019
(Photo by Goran Horvat)
“People always tell you, ‘Be humble. Be humble.’ When was the last time someone told you to be amazing? Be great! Be great! Be awesome! Be awesome!”
— Kanye West (1977 – ); American rapper and record producer
Make this day YOUR day! Then do it again tomorrow!
(Photo by Mohoshin Uddin)
“’Twixt the optimist and the pessimist, the difference is droll. The optimist sees the doughnut, but the pessimist sees the hole!”
— Florence McLandburgh (1850-1934)
American poet; wrote under pen name McLandburgh Wilson
(Photo by Thornsten Frenzel)
“I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and I believe in miracles.”
— Audrey Hepburn (1929 – 1993); British actress and humanitarian
(Image by Evgen Rom)
“Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.”
— Helen Keller (1880 – 1968)
American author, political activist, and disability rights advocate
(Photo by Sasin Tipchai)
“When we lock down ideas we do not understand, we lock up our ability to gain understanding.”
— Cathy Burnham Martin
American author, voiceover artist & dedicated foodie
Yum! If cheddar is better, then puffs are the stuff!
Whether you like your cheddar puffed, crispy, fried, or baked, today’s the day to celebrate with true finger-lickin’-good yumminess. No worries. Remember, we can’t make everyone happy, because we are not cheese!
While G.I. refers to army personnel, this day encompasses all military divisions. HUGE thank you’s & hugs to all who serve and have served, and their families, too. Of interest is the tidbit that this date, March 4, is the only day on the calendar that sounds like a military command when said… “March forth!”
“The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing.”
— Albert Einstein (1879 – 1955)
German-born theoretical physicist; developed theory of relativity
Image by Joan Greenman
Yes! This is a real thing. Every March 3rd National Soup It Forward Day encourages us to deliver love and kindness by the bowlful because a warm cup of kindness comes in many forms.
To that end, I gleefully serve up one of my published soup recipes from my Keep It Super Simple collections. I created this scrumptious bisque after being served one near The Hamptons on Long Island, New York in 2005. If you are a fan of beets, you will find this soup to be yummy, healthy, and Super Simple.
Café Martin Fresh Beet Bisque
3 c chopped fresh beets, peeled
2 c chopped sweet onions
1 c chopped baby carrots
2 c chopped, peeled, cored apples (Granny Smith, Cortland, or combo)
2 c chicken broth
2 c beef broth
¼ tsp ground ginger
1/8 tsp ground nutmeg
½ tsp salt (I love the pink Himalayan salt.)
Freshly ground black pepper, to suit your taste
Put all vegetables, apples, & broth in large soup pot. Simmer, covered, on med-low heat for about 30 min or until vegetables are tender. In batches of 2 c each, process on puree setting in a blender, or use an immersion blender directly in your pan. Add seasonings and serve in heated bowls. Makes 8 cups (2 qts) of soup.
KISS Tip: Add a luscious creaminess by serving each bowl topped with a pat of butter in the center.
You can find this and all my cookbooks in paperback and ebook formats on my GoodLiving123.com website and anywhere you shop for books.
Yes, today marks the birthday of Dr. Seuss. Whether you like “Green Eggs and Ham,” “You’re Only Old Once,” “How the Grinch Stole Christmas, “Oh, the Places You’ll Go,” or any of his other delightful works of whimsy, ’tis a day worth noting… at least, for me it is.
“Today you are you! That is truer than true!
There is no one alive who is you-er than you!
— Dr. Seuss (Theodor Seuss Geisel); March 2, 1904 – September 24, 1991
American children’s author, illustrator, and political cartoonist
(Image by Noah Haggerty)
Sure, smile at someone… or smile back! (If you are wearing a mask, smile anyway! Those 52 muscles need to be exercised more.)
“The smile is the beginning of love.”
— Mother Mary Teresa Bojaxhiu (Saint Teresa of Calcutta); (1910-1997)
Quoted from her 1979 Nobel Peace Prize lecture.
“Discouragers see the gloom in every room, the cloud on every silver lining, and the problem in front of every solution.”
From “Encouragement: How to Be and Find the Best” by Cathy Burnham Martin, 2019
“I always knew looking back on my tears would bring me laughter, but I never knew looking back on my laughter would make me cry.”
— Cat Stevens – Yusef Islam
(Born Steven Demetre Georgiou) (1948 – ); British singer-songwriter
“There is little success where there is little laughter.”
— Andrew Carnegie (1835 – 1919); Scottish-American industrialist & philanthropist
Image by Gerd Altmann
“The destruction of a civilized society by a jealous, violent one is never a good thing for anyone involved.”
From “Destiny of Dreams: Time is Dear” by Cathy Burnham Martin, 2021
Image by Dmitry Abramov
“Always listen to the experts. They tell you what can’t be done and why. Then go do it.”
— Robert A. Heinlein (1907-1988); American science-fiction writer
“In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.”
— Kahlil Gibran (1883 – 1931); Lebanese-born writer & poet
Image by Gordon Johnson
“Whether or not we choose to believe something, reality remains reality.”
— Cathy Burnham Martin, American author, voiceover artist & dedicated foodie
Image by Gerd Altmann
“A problem cannot be solved with the same consciousness that created it.”
— Albert Einstein (1879 – 1955)
German-born theoretical physicist; developed theory of relativity
“We do not write or paint or perform to become rich or famous. We create because we must let out what is locked inside.”
— Cathy Burnham Martin, American Author, Voiceover Artist, Dedicated Foodie
Image by Chris Martin
“God gave us the gift of life; it is up to us to give ourselves the gift of living well.”
— Voltaire (Francois-Marie Arouet) (1694 – 1778) French writer & philosopher
Happy Birthday to my hubby, Sir Ronald…. And to all the other February birthday celebrants!
“A misty morning does not signify a cloudy day.”
— Ancient proverb
Image by Chakkree Chantakad
A healthy attitude is contagious but don’t wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.
— Tom Stoppard, (1937 – ); British playwright
Image by Gerd Altmann
“We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools.”
— Martin Luther King, Jr., 1929 – 1968; American Baptist minister & civil rights activist; Quote is from his speech in St. Louis on March 22, 1964.
Image by John Hain
“Shared joy is a double joy.
Shared sorrow is half a sorrow.”
– Swedish proverb
“The measure of love is love without measure.”
— Saint Bernard of Clairvaux, patron saint of candlemakers (1090-1153)
“Recognize that we were born with confidence. We were born to be Encouragers. What we unlearned, we can easily relearn. Sweet.”
— Cathy Burnham Martin, Author, “Encouragement: How to Be and Find the Best,” 2019
“I’m new-wave, but I’m old-school,
and my inner child is outward-bound.
You can’t shut me up; you can’t dumb me down.”
— from “When Will Jesus Bring the Pork Chops” by comedian George Carlin, 2004
“When I say less, I often communicate more.”
— Cathy Burnham Martin, Author
Here comes a little “Cathy Chat.” My inspiration came after finding quotations from some of my books online. How endearing to find people are reading and being inspired. Some were about life lessons; others about how we relate to people. I especially like words that make me think… or make me smile!
I simply love a crack I saw on television a while ago. In a sportscast, a particular on-air talent always features a bit of wit in a chalkboard displayed over his shoulder. On one segment I laughed out loud, because the quote, attributed to Abraham Lincoln, was something like, “The problem with quotes on the Internet is that you never know if they are real.” Gooooood wit and irony, since there were no computers, never mind the World Wide Web in Lincoln’s day.
Superb reading for me comes from books with quotes that set a mood or reflect a particular theme. It matters little whether they come from famous people or unknowns, whether they are words of wisdom or generate laughter. One great example shines in my 2014 book, “Champagne! Facts, Fizz, Food & Fun.” Whether genuine or not, many quotes end up attributed to Mark Twain, including. “Too much of anything is bad, but too much champagne is just right.” That reminded me of a favorite Mae West quotation, “Too much of a good thing… is wonderful.”
Some quotes give a glimpse into history, such as this one attributed to Winston Churchill. “Meeting Franklin Roosevelt was like opening your first bottle of champagne; knowing him was like drinking it.”
Enough about bubbly for now. Collecting quotes since I was a child, I originally found them in the back of a huge family dictionary. I also jotted them down from a book or magazine I may have been reading. Since the 1960’s I have continued to glean some favorites from literature, theatrical works, movies, or speeches. I sometimes capture great quips when I hear them on television or the radio.
Sometimes these gems strike me as frivolous… sometimes wise… usually reflecting both wit and wisdom. Sometimes reflecting someone I sense is out of touch; other times they seem to reveal tremendous insight.
I plan to share, post, and distribute some simple thoughts and quotations. In doing so, if I didn’t say it, hear it, or read the quote firsthand, I will try to validate its legitimacy. If I misquote or misattribute, I apologize in advance. I will only offer them to you with the best intentions to provide a smile, provoke a thought, or simply share some wit and wisdom.
That said, I close for now with a quote from that great source we call ‘Unknown.’ Unknown simply said, “If you have trouble getting the cork out, drink champagne.”
For us, in the United States of America, this is Thanksgiving. May we all pause to count our many blessings. Perhaps it was something small, like hearing the song of a bird outside. Perhaps we cherish something large, like extended time with a loved one.
Especially for anyone feeling in a dark place right now… or feeling rather alone, let’s shine some light. Let’s add some encouragement.
We all have many blessings, even when feeling so utterly overwhelmed that we lose sight of them. Sight… our vision is a blessing. Hearing, taste, and touch are also. Having a roof over our heads, food to eat, and clean water to drink are all blessings.
If someone loves us or has loved us in the past, these are blessings. (If we love someone or have loved someone in the past, these are both blessings and blessings bestowed on others!)
We have all suffered losses and setbacks, sometimes in what may feel like disproportionate quantities! Some losses are small, and others are utterly heartbreaking.
Through good and bad, happiness and sadness, times of plenty and times of yearning, we are blessed when we can feel ourselves truly living.
We are never really alone. None of us is. Hang in there. Be well. Stay safe. Give thanks.
Bless you!
While it’s on the Cathy Burnham Martin YouTube Channel and Facebook, I would be remiss to not include it here, also. Creating hubby’s 2021 Halloween get-up was a true labor of love! And it all started with his confounded radiation mask… initially much dreaded, and now the basis of his resounding success! The video is a 10-minute clip on a true D.I.Y. special. Enjoy!
Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear has been receiving a delightful number of early reviews and testimonial comments. I will try to post more here from time to time. The bottom line is one of great encouragement. I can’t include the multiple paragraphs of some of the reviews, but I am pleased to share some excerpts. (The full texts are showing up all over the Internet, from Amazon and Goodreads to various reviewers’ websites and blogs.) Though “Destiny” is dark and haunting, we are touching hearts and minds!
“It is beautifully written, the type you can’t put down and that you want to read to the finish hoping it will never end. Being an Armenian, whose father and other relatives escaped the genocide, I was extremely interested in what was written, especially that it was based on truth.”
— Marian Murachanian Major, Past President, American Association of University Women, Clearwater Branch
“The story was so compelling I could hardly put it down… Horrific, but true; sad, but inspiring.”
— Nancy Keller, Owner, Boston Polo Publishing Company
“Not all paths are graceful or full of love, but there is a grand strength and determination throughout the family’s history. This is one magnificent journey and written so well, that I was right there next to her, even if just a shadow listening intently. Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear is a definite recommendation by Amy’s Bookshelf Reviews. It’s a story I won’t soon forget. This was just a wondrous story of life, love, and determination for survival. I look forward to reading many more stories by this author.” — Amy Shannon, Amy’s Bookshelf Reviews
“A graceful story about a family who values peace, education, and equality, the historical novel Destiny of Dreams covers a genocide that led to heartbreak, but whose survivors expressed love and perseverance. The book’s style is eloquent, with vibrant language used to illustrate the physical and emotional landscapes of 1915 Armenia.”
–Foreword Clarion Reviews
“Author Cathy Burnham Martin is a master at storytelling, balancing the darker and more disturbing aspects of the story with hope and positivity. The flow of events made the book hard to put down despite the darkest and most difficult moments. The characters were well developed with revealing dialogue, making investing in them, their stories, and their journeys easy and exciting.”
— K.C. Finn, Readers’ Favorite
“Elegantly intertwined journey through time periods intersects in ways both heartbreaking and heartwarming. The characters and culture are rich and warm, in stark contrast to the cold world where they find themselves, a world divided by deep-seated religious beliefs and prejudices. Two stories unified by one spirit, Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear is not simply a story of strife, but it is a beautiful portrayal of faith, inner strength, and dignity.”
— Indies Today
“Destiny of Dreams is a must-read for history lovers. Author Cathy Burnham Martin masterfully incorporates real-life events and people to craft a moving tale that showcases the brutal aspects of war without pulling any punches. The real-life events that inspired this tale provide a sense of depth and authenticity to the narrative, and it leaves a lasting impression long after you’ve put down the book. The characters feel real, making them thoroughly compelling to read.”
— Pikasho Deka, Readers’ Favorite
“It was absolutely harrowing to read about it, but also very important because these stories need to continue being told. If you want to know more about the history then I’d recommend you read this book. It’s about a true story, and you just don’t hear enough about the Armenian genocide.”
— BookFever, Belgium
“It is a book about survival and how to see the light at the end of the tunnel even in the darkest of times. The author, however, focuses as much on the positive aspects as on the negatives. I really liked the writing style of the book as well. The pictures towards the end were just an added bonus that made this story even more heart-touching.”
— Alex the Shadow Girl
“Cathy Burnham Martin has created a novel that sustains the all-important emotional connection in a story that moves between the past and the present. The narration of the characters is natural, convincing, and sticks in your mind.”
— Vincent Dublado, Readers’ Favorite
“While focusing on her own family, she capably weaves historical details and events into the narrative and delves into cultural differences between Turk and the Armenian populations, such as the treatment of women or the roles of arts and education. The journey of the Gulumian family to Russia to the U.S. is fast-paced and richly enhanced by Martin’s depictions.” — BookLife
Thanks to all readers and reviewers! I appreciate your time and honest reviews. This helps me to serve you better with future books.
It’s official! My new historical fiction, Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear is now available in paperback and digital formats on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and beyond! Yes, it tells my Armenian ancestors’ story and has been a true labor of love for me. While heartwrenching, I think readers will see how impactful my family has been on my own attempts to maintain personal strength and a positive attitude.
This, my first novel, is a far cry from my usual quippy, uplifting, or life lessons approach, so prevalent in my nonfiction works. And yet, especially considering the chaos in Afghanistan and other hotspots of crisis around the world, the timing is even more important. We must never forget nor diminish the painful memories history deals us. Lessons from man’s inhumanity to man must make us better for the sake of future generations.
As the story begins, my grandfather is a mere child. However, though nothing gratuitous, some explicit descriptions and a couple of disturbing, though not graphic, violent depictions may be unsuitable for young readers.
I have been honored by several readers of my advance draft editions. For example, I received this early testimonial from Dr. David Green, retired Chief Medical Officer at Concord Hospital in New Hampshire, “Congratulations on a wonderful and thoughtful work! You have given such an eloquent voice to their suffering, sacrifice, and perseverance. It was a wonderful read, hard to put down. Should be a required read for High School students!”
Thanks, Doc. I was honored to include some maps suggested by him for the final edition.
If you happen to choose to read Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear, an honest review on sites such as Amazon or Goodreads or elsewhere would be deeply appreciated. This is how I learn to serve readers like you even better!
Very exciting to see the cover is now completed for Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear. While I had loved seeing my grandmother’s photograph of a part of the city of Van in Armenia, such personal mementos would likely hold little meaning to a typical reader. So, the old 1915 photo is now on the back cover.
Of course, Hubby was sad that it replaced the photo of Yours Truly. I assured him that my smiling puss brings nothing to the story and would not be missed.
Further, the working draft cover was quite plain, which was rightly noted by one advance reviewer. The cover now presents a depiction of the Armenian flag, which is appropriate for this utterly Armenian event. I love the deep, dark tones, too, because they aptly set the stage for what is a very intense and foreboding, albeit true story.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart to everyone who has been keeping Sir Ronald (a.k.a. my hubby) in their prayers since he was first diagnosed with throat cancer and went through the long months of radiation, chemo, and exciting, lingering side effects. His new CT-scan and other tests now show NO more signs of cancer. Yayyy!
He continues to recover nicely and has even regained a few of the 63 pounds of lost weight. Now he enters the standard 5-year period of scans and tests every 6 months.
It’s been a long and arduous road, as too many of you also know from your own experiences. Whenever he wanted to quit, I could only keep trying to remind him that we just needed to get through one more day. Just one more day. And then one more day.
He did it. And we get the blessing of good news… the golden light at the end of the storm.
A great many people travel the same path but do not get good news. They enter the storm but do not get to pass through it. To many prayers come answers we did not want. As hard as we may try to convince ourselves otherwise, we are not in charge.
May both the triumphs and tragedies help us gain perspective and appreciation. Every hour… every day is a blessing. Our struggles and successes can help us learn to count our blessings… each and every one.
Thank you again for all the love, well wishes, and prayers. Sir Ronald and I both thank you, ever so humbly.
Hug someone you love today.
The “buzzzz” is true! Though noted for my non-fiction works, my first novel is now ready to go! Quiet Thunder Publishing will release Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear on August 31, 2021.
This historical fiction, set in the early and mid-20th Century, serves up a very difficult slice of my family history “pie.” It tells my grandfather’s story, my family’s story of faith and fortitude.
While the spirited Armenian boy sings and dances passionately, danger swells, threatening his family, friends, and future. Set amidst religious intolerance, political instability, and social injustice in the waning days of the Ottoman Empire, Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear links past and present with mystifying clarity. In this painfully poignant, true story, young Hrant and his family struggle to withstand unthinkable circumstances and survive extraordinary chaos and violence. Love and courage must prevail, or all will be both lost and forgotten.
Written for Young Adult and Adult audiences, this historical fiction contains some explicit descriptions and a couple disturbing, though not graphic, violent scenes. While not gratuitous, the depictions may be unsuitable for young readers, even though the budding protagonist is a Middle Grade youngster himself. Destiny of Dreams: Time Is Dear would be apt to get a PG-13-type rating.
Regardless, Dr. David Green, Chief Medical Officer (retired) at Concord (NH) Hospital read an advanced copy. He shared his belief that the book should be required reading for every high school student! Well, I won’t argue that. Especially during modern times of intolerance and political divisiveness, I believe shining a spotlight on the importance of accepting differences is vital.
The Kindle edition is available for Pre-Order on Amazon. Both the digital and paperback formats will be available August 31st.
Life deals us some mighty strange cards from time to time. Sometimes “bad hands” all seem to land at the same time. Yes, for me, too. The pandemic lockdown, the death of a close loved one, shattered family trust, cancer diagnosis in a spouse, etc., etc., etc. I coped by prayer, thinking positively, focusing introspectively, and facing each day hour by hour much of the time.
Yes, 2020 proved to be a tumultuous year for us all. What started with a pandemic exploded into the most divisively destructive cancel culture ever seen.
We are changed by it, most assuredly. I am no exception. As with all things, I try to seek the positive fallout. What have we learned? How have we grown? What can we now do better? What improved vision do we vow to employ going forward. If we look closely, there may well be some silver linings in the storm.
For example, I slipped away from social media… and survived. We learned to appreciate good health as we crawl through the quagmire of treatments and recovery in my husband’s cancer toward a good prognosis. I note that I am blessed with a healthy 91-year-old mother. I grew closer to my sister who lives thousands of miles away. Our first grandchild and great nephew were born, along with lots of other friends’ babies. More babies than ever before are getting the previously rare experience of babyhood with two parents at home and available to share the magical miracles of helping their babies grow. I took time to finish writing my first novel, which I had started more than ten years ago. I learned to cook some new foods. I appreciated the blessing of living in a beautiful setting with an abundance of marvelous nature and beauty. The list goes on and on!
I also learned a great way to deal with hideous negativity. Try, if you like, to point out a way the negative person can do better, but have zero expectations that they will actually see things differently. Despite current wanna-be “woke” thinking to the contrary, differing opinions make us smarter people and a healthier society. Beware of all who want to “cancel” someone for believing differently. There truly is more than one “right” way to get things done. Always remember, only weak people and unhealthy leaders try to squash dissention. If someone’s attitude proves to be unbearable, don’t let your positivity be thwarted. Simply hit flush. Let it go. You do not have to join their negative thinking.
All in all, in these past 15-16 months, our comfortable complacency cracked. For better or worse, we’ve tumbled out anew. Let this be a good thing.
I toast to your safety, happiness, and improved coping skills! “Here’s looking at you, kid!”